Ok so I know all girls are flakey/crazy etc, but I've been dating this girl for a month, and we sent the last 4 days together, basically in bed, banging like rabbits, and all day hanging out all day saturday. Sat night at 3am we're lying around talking and i interrupt her story (which I do a lot and she can't stand it). She freaks out and says I can't take it anymore. I try to apologize and she says I always do this and this plus a few other qualities she can't stand and she's over this. Today we talk on the phone a bit and i try to reason with her. SHe wont' budge. I say to her, after all we did this weekend and last few weeks, is it so easy to flip off the switch, and she said yes, she's done with this (really driving home the point).

I know this totally happens, and I should move on. No she wasn't drunk or high or on her period, but we had such a crazy good time for a month and she wanted to see me all the time, and she went all cold turkey in a second over a pretty simple little thing.

I probably should say good riddance, but do guys have any advice on how to get her to cool off and revisit this or not possible. We dont' hang out in the same places so demonstrating higher value now is tough

Why do you interrupt her all the time? Are you purposely trying to be a jerk? You're fucking her it won't kill you to listen to her from time to time. Sounds like you brought this on yourself I be pissed too if a girl kept interrupting me.

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buy her fucking flowers.

if she doesn't come back after that forget about it but you made your intentions pretty clear and said and did everything you need to without words (which were the problem) for under $50

Pretty sure this is not the way to go. You guys only saw each other for a month and spended a shit load of time together. I am not saying this is the case but i think she got bored with you and want someone new again. Her freaking out over something simple is just an excuse of breaking-up. I bet this girl has a ton of exes and is most likely the "Freak" type am i right?

I say this because i dated a freak for 2 months and after exactly 1 month of pure gold she started bitching about little shit to: "I blame her for everything, i should dust of my flags in my room, "I hit her in my sleep..., "I did not give her space when we slept","i was immature", 60 other things that were just completely ridiculous and not based on facts.

I would not apologize for your actions and just forget about her and date other chicks, then she will most likely contact you in a few days but if not you still got other chicks.

To show higher value without really seeing her is if you got her on facebook.... post some cool pictures of you having fun and at best some hot chicks.

Hope this helps you.

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Yeah you are right Furiox,

I was out with a friend and he knows of her and thinks she's quite damaged goods. Reckons some guys fucked her over and now she just wants to be alone and chased. I mean she went from hot to cold really quickly and yeah towards the end she was complaining about everything. But strange thing is she wanted to see me everyday. We met wednesday where she introduced to her cousin who was visiting, and then asks to meet on thursday, and we pretty much spent everyday together since until saturday night. And I tell you, we both were going at eachother sexually like no tomrw. How she can go from passionate and talking about all kinds of intimate shit to i literally feel nothing for you now, in a few hours on a saturday night, is pretty freaky. Could be she's a manhater, as she described her relationship with her exes with contempt which I am now realizing.

I agree that now any chasing gestures like gifts or flowers will probably make her lose more respect for me. She wants some real alpha who doesn't show vulnerability and has all his shit together. I guess my mistake was revealing too much about myself including some things where I didn't come across as uber confident.

I probably should let her go because the way she left should be a big red flag, but i had so much fun with her, and yes the sex was unfreakin believeable.

I guess I just have to let it be and see if she ever reappears. I do have her on facebook, but I really don't use it much and if now all of a sudden i start posting a ton of pictures, she may think I'm trying to get her attention. She seems to understand the alpha game which is also annoying

Yeah bro i know its freaky but that's what they are haha.

Freaks need constant validation and sex is the best validation she can get, this is why freaks are great for fuck buddies but there is NO WAY you can have a long term relationship with a freak. My ex freak also introduced me to her family and grandma and told me all about her life and what her exes did to her.

But in all cases ( 23, she is 17) it was never her fault, always the exes. In our relationship she always blamed me, never said sorry herself. In reality however its 99% the freak that fucks up the relationship due of cheating or acting aloof all the sudden.

Freaks put up a mask for in your case a month. They pretend to be good girls who really love you and never want anyone else but only for the attention and validation you give them, THEY LOVE THIS!. In reality however there some twisted motherfuckers who use you and don't REALLY care about you nor your feelings.

When they know that you love them and got you by your balls she will get bored and find a new victim. To keep a freak for a long period of time you need to pass all shit tests, handle there drama, not be emotionally invested and have some serious game.

Best thing you can do is indeed be unavailable for a while and let her think where did he go? You really don't want this girl in your life anymore and it might be hard to realize because the sex was probably unbelievable but there many other GOOD girls out there without issues.

Hope i helped!

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Yeah i hear you dude, and thanks for the heads up.

I doubt she'll be wondering where did he go to be honest because she made it a big point to say I'm totally not into you now. If she were to turn that around now I would surprised. all i know is there is no angle for me to pursue her. One thing I learned is once the girl dumps you, you have no more cards to play with her except complete ignore.

I break up with the one I was dating before this one and she's been calling me for weeks now. Will probably meet up with her this week. The dumper/dumpee dynamics is all fucked up but I realize there is no way around it.

Am still shell shocked because i can't believe how crazy a roller coaster this weekend was with that girl, but nothing surprises me anymore. And like a fool I still want to be with her

Well good or bad I got some advice from a friend which i followed but not sure what if anything it did to be honest. He said if you looked weak during the breakup just send her a message saying after thinking about it you get why she made her decision and you agree with it. So I texted her that yesterday. She writes back..."(my name). relax. it's not the end of the world." I reply "? Strange response" Then she replies with a picture saying "Look I just saw Obama driving by and he waved at me". I reply later on "Hope that wasn't the highlight of your day loser :p" (her and her friends call eachother loser)

Anyways, I'm probably being toyed with at this point.

Broooo please cut the fuck lose from her!

Your giving her exactly what she wants, attention! She does not deserve your time nor attention! Its her loss and you should meet a shit load of girls so you won't think about this freaky girl.

Don't blame yourself for the break-up, this will make you think what did i do wrong blablabla. Freaks play it like pro's and make you think it was you who fucked up but in reality it is always her fault unless you cheated or made a shit load of AFC moves.

Learn from this experience and improve your game, in no time you will have a much hotter girl with a good personality who loves you for longer then a month!

Next time try to screen the girl better.... and act accordingly. Freaks and hoes need a badboy while good girls are the ones you give your heart to when she deserved it.

For the love of god, delete everything about her and move on! Its the best move you can do!

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Yeah i hear you Furiox. Her fucking friend approached me on match.com yesterday. thinking of going out with her just to piss my ex off, but then i realized it is then again all about her. I need to stay away from anything connected to her now and try to focus on other chicks.