Hey brahs..

Basically I get on average at least 6-10 calls a day from my gf. The first call is good since we talk about what we are both doing that day. However, the conversations are all the same: They may go like this:

11AM:
her - what you up to?
me- ohh just studying.. you?

12am
her-what you up to?
me- studying just like I was 60 minutes ago..

This goes on and on and on.. until before bed she calls and says good night.

On another note: she has been gaining some weight. She came to uni and is defo packed on some beef. It's gross actually. And my physical attraction for her is less than it was.

I love her to bits but this stuff is wearing me down..

Any advice guys?

Why do you pick up your phone if you know you have nothing to talk about? Is it really healthy for her to know what you are doing every hour of every day? Doesn't that take some of the tension out of the relationship?

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Had a friend with similar issues. She texts him nonstop and called a lot. He just told her he is not really the type who calls 24/7 and text as he is a busy person.

He broke up with her though because she was really childish and immature and couldn't take it anymore.

If you lost attraction for her due some weight gain and add the texting to it you might ask yourself why not find a girl who i am attracted to and who doesn't call me 10 times a day. You said you loved her to death and it seems your in control so maybe talk to her about it and hopefully she will start working out to get in better shape and stops the 60 calls a day.

Let us know how things work out.

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Hey. Thanks for he input.

Yeah I have tried that. I stopped picking up my phone and then she just kept calling. Weird as ****.. I acted like a chump though because I eventually apologised for not picking up with basically validated her into thinking she did the right thing. That was a big mistake by me and I have paid the price. It's not good for the relationship! I can tell you. I've tried talking about it and explained that there is no spark because we know what we are doing every minute of the day.

Any more advice how to handle this now? THanks

Wow, wow. Wow. How the fuck do you go from doing the smart and right thing to apologizing and letting her know her behaviour is good. If you can't do what is right yourself you don't need to come and talk to strangers to make it feel like you know what you are doing. God dam man what is happening on this forum.

Lol.. Posts: 35... Enough said

Haha, ok buddy I'll take your flame bait. First off I don't see how you can compare my number of posts to what I know. Second, grats you got more posts than me. However I'm not the one fucking an insecure girl who is putting on lbs every week, she has you by your balls, either face it or just accept it. We have already told you what you should do, only one who can do a change is yourself.

If you don't have the confidence to get above this, then it is what will happen. If you keep going down this road you will end up committed to a fatty who has your life on lockdown.

Anyway, yeah man check my post number. Good luck mate, I hope you can finally get your own spine and brain to deal with this.