So i am with this girl, and just like my last girlfriend(ex) i am started to get the feeling that i am to close with her. its like i love flirting with girls, but somehow i get like disgusted when i am so close with her. I kinda get this feeling when it gets really intiment like boyfriend and girlfriend wise, i don't know what to do about it, because i want to be able to have a girlfriend without being scared of getting to close with her. The thing that scares me the most is when she is all like posting how much she loves me on my facebook wall, it really disgust me! and when it happens i just feel like i should brake up, can't really tell if i just need to find a girl i really love or what! please help me!

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Honestly? This sounds like something you should discuss with a therapist. It sounds like you have some rather deep-seated issues to work though. Is this just a manifestation of your fear of commitment? I mean, it's pretty abnormal to react in disgust when somebody says they love you. You also are saying your AFRAID for girls to express their emotions about you.. I don't think you're going to find anybody here who can help with that (without key-board jockeying). You might want to consider sending a PM to Illuminatus (he posts over at fasterseduction.com), he might be able to point you in the right direction. He kind of specializes in fixing serious inner-game problems.

Just my 2 cents.

-Wolf

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