Hey I haven't been on here for a while but...

My girlfriend and I have been going out for near 10 months. We're at the same university/college. She told me she loves me a couple of months ago and I do in return. We've never argued we're very happy etc etc

But I've softened. I've been telling her I miss her, admitting that I think about her all the time, that I think she's beautiful. I've laid off on the negs.

I just saw on her facebook that she read an article titled "Sleeping around: My moment of truth happened at university." I don't want to jump to conclusions but either way I feel I need to reel it in and ensure I'm not smothering her.

Tips? Advice?

Thanks, guys

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Hi there,

I don't think it's really a bad thing to say such things. I think you have to, because girls also need approval I guess. Some girls need it more than others, you have to learn how much your girl needs, create a balance.

But is she giving clues like she doesn't want you anymore? Or is it just in your head? I think you should figure that out, I mean, is she negging on you a lot? Is she giving you no more sex? Check for clues if she still adores you, or if she's flirting a lot with others?

Try to focus on other things, not just her.

Maybe you can tell more about your situation, so I can help better.

What is the big deal...?

She reads an article like that doesn't mean she is cheating right? And don't ask us man, ask her. I think you're not having a healthy relationship if you see she reads something, but don't talk with her about it.

Just start communicating and really act like a bitch. Ignore her for a couple of minutes. Tread her bad. Be a little boy that didn't get his snack. Start shouting and crying that sometimes you feel like you are smothering her, but your not getting it back. Be a big fat AFC in there. And then see how she responds.

thats how people communicate in a relationship and that is how you figure things like this out.

So don't ask around or comtemplate,
but communicate.

Greetz

Buccaneer

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