Hey guys,

I have a relationship and turned into a woos so need to get out of it! My
girfriend rarely apps me throuhout the day always with the same questions!
I always answer them nicely but i want your opinion of how you would answer them!

Question 1:

Her: What are you doing?
Me: Just chilling, go to soccer practice in about 20 minutes. You?
Her: ok. im doing nothing

Question 2:

Her: Good morning honey, sleeped well?
Me: Perfect! How about you?
Her: Yea not so bad.

Question 3:

Her: Iam bored
Me: Haha me to!

Question 4:

Her: Sitting at my dads house.
Me: Nice! Having fun?
Her: No, going home in 10.


Now what would be smart to do in these situations? Should i react like a asshole and repond hars, for example if she says "iam bored", "So....? I can't help that your bored.'

This would piss her off as i know her! Then we have a fight why i respond like that, i like this girl and really want a god relationship where i am in control and get the attention instead of her controlling me.

Thanks for reading!

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Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.

You: Oh, you know, just licking my dick. Drafting my acceptance speech.
You: Like a hibernating bear. Make me some salmon?
You: Why're you bored? You're supposed to be making me salmon.
You: Cool story! Is that you baby, or did Mark Twain steal your phone again?

You get the idea. The conversation can't be too meaningful, anyway. I mean, you guys are talking with your thumbs!

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Honestly? I'd ignore most of them.. I'm a busy guy and I have things to do during the day besides texting about unimportant crap. If this was my awesome poly-girlfriend, then I'd probably just respond with a heart symbol or smiley or something short to acknowledge that I'm alive (she's earned that much by being so awesome). However, I'd ignore pretty much any other girl.

People spend way too much thought and time texting about inane things. Just stop. It just validates the girl (by giving her attention), while providing no benefit for the guys. If a girl knows you are at her beck and call 24-7 (before she's earned that privilege), then it kills some of the attraction because you become less of a challenge.

-Wolf

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Wolf, ignoring the questions would piss her off or say things, why ignoring me? What did i do?

So would that really be a good idea instead of just saying what your doing if she asks: "What your doing honey?" and not asking what shes doing after your answered.

I don't want problems because of little things like this so any other thing you might suggest?

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Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.

Yes, it's still a good idea. Just keep ignoring her.. your a busy guy, remember? Things to see, people to do and all that.

Don't do things just because you fear a girl's reaction. That's called placating and it's a bad thing to do in a relationship if your goal is long-term happiness. Just because you HAVE a cell phone doesn't mean you are obligated to use it anytime somebody decides to call or text you. It's there for your convenience. If your girlfriend complains to you about it (it's a shit test), then you should probably explain that to her (or just tease her about it, because it's a shit test).

-Wolf

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Thanks Wolf, i am trying to see your point here!

Only problem i have is we only use SPAM, and you can see when somebody has been online for the last time, can't turn that off so she always knows you have read her message and could have responded to it.

I will try to ignore her more times now and get her pissed so i get some shit test and then i will wait a little longer to respond and then what would be smart to say? Do i still answer to her original questions? Or do i just ignore that and explain i was busy and did not have time to respond to it.

My point of view would be after you say you were busy, she will say: "oh so you dont have time for me, see ya!" or i can imagine my girl saying: "Fine" in a sarcastic way of not being fine with it. Then ignoring me for a few days.

You can tell i never done this before and really got no clue what to expect but hey! What iam doing right now, is not working either so its worth a try! Hopefully its not to late! ( 2 months relationships, ALWAYS nice and responded in hours! )

I REALLY like your inputs! You know what your talking about

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Do not make external things like girls define your happiness or you will live a harsh life. Keep doing what you love and keep improving as a man.

Yes this is very annoying indeed, a thing that works is just turning your phone off completely or not reading your SPAM at all, i know it can be very hard because you're curious what she's saying but this is the only solution afaik..