My girlfriend is pretty damn amazing when she's actually my girlfriend. The problem is, when her fat friend (female) comes around, she distances herself from me. Her friend's boyfriend lives an hour away, and she constantly makes comments about us if we get too close. If I try to kiss her, the friend makes awkward comments to ruin the moment. If I put my arm around her, the friend gives us a weird look. This has caused my girlfriend to shy away from any PDA when her friend is around and I've just about had enough.

I have brought it to my girlfriend's attention before and she gets defensive and says that it must be hard to have a boyfriend who lives so far away while she watches other couples kiss and get so close. Guess what? That's not my fucking problem. I need some advice on how to handle this.

All three of us go to school together and have the same classes and we go out drinking together afterward. I can't get any alone time with my girlfriend anymore because she invites this girl out with us every single time. We still have 9 months of school left before we graduate and I am not going to spend this time being treated this way.

Her friend also snaps at me if I tease my girlfriend. This makes it look like I was being serious, and in turn I look like a total dick. If I snap back, they both get pissed. I'm fucking frustrated and I'm honestly about to end the relationship. It's almost like her friend is actually a guy and she's cheating on me or something. It's that bad.

if she bothering you.

Easy dont go out with them.

Go out with your friends. Since you cant enjoy your "time" with your g/f I dont see why spend time with her.

you are slipping more and more to one of the girls... next time you are going shopping with them.

Ditch both there ass. If your girl tell you " why you are not coming, you tell her straight away since we cant have no lonely time and cant date and everything I do it seems a big problem, im going ou with my friend.

Or another options is bring a Obnoxius friend. Who they will hate but they have to endure him lol. A Stifler .

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Either plan dates or plan nights where she can come to your place. It doesn't sound like you're doing a very good job leading. Also, like Snake said, don't do things that involve hanging out with her friends. She's a big girl and she can decide for herself if she wants friend-time or boyfriend-time.

On that note, don't try to stop her from hanging out with her friends. Just tell her to have fun and/or to come over at the end of the night for sexy-time.

-Wolf

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Amatuer game: Avoid the friend, don't go out with them

Pro game: WIN the friend over.

Do it. Don't insult her by calling her fat (you did it here, it's a subliminally implanted thought you have now - erase it). This makes life enjoyable for you and your GF.

It's not JUST about you, if it is... why are you in a relationship?

Seriously.... win over her friend. Invite her friend out alone to lunch, confront her realistically. Ask her "why don't we get along?". Put it on HER lap, and see how she responds. If you come across as mature and direct - you call her out, without yout GF, and you might get the answer.

Seriously, stop being so angry at the friend - it diminishes your own game. You're already talking "If she doesn't do _____ then I'll do ____"... If that's the case, drop a compliance test - which it sounds like your GF will fail - and bounce.

Her friend isn't an obstacle, she's a PART of your GF's life. This isn't a club vibe, this is your daily life. Win the bitch over.

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