so i date this girl, the date was very good.She chats to me on blackberry messenger the day after next thing i know she doesnt reply to my messages for 4 days. Eventually during the week i ask her how she is but no reply she reads the message i can see because it shows R but with no reply, so i found another girl, told the girl i dated an told her im not interested in her anymore and deleted her off my black berry messenger.

why did she give me the silent SPAM for 4 days without a reply?

and how do you get girls to respond and not make them just read your messages on black berry messenger?

do you say ''angel u read this message''or ''it wasnt too much read angel'' or''stop reading and start replying angel''

is there a different game on black berry messenger?

There are billions of women out there. One who is wishy-washy with her Blackberry isn't worthy of your time.

I don't want to say anything as cliched as "move on"...but I think I just did.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

Pull your battery out of your phone and restart it. The number of times I thought a person wasn't responding on BBM and it turns out BBM is a piece of shit that messes up all the time is astounding.

When the phone turns back on it should properly deliver messages again for a bit.

Sucks if this is what happened to you, but oh well life goes on.

Don't waste your time with un-interested chicks.

If a girl wants to msg you, she will msg you. If she waits 4 days, she isn't interested enough.

And there's no subtle way to ask her to reply faster. Even giving off a VIBE that you want her to respond sooner shows signs of desperation, and girls catch onto that much faster than you think.

If she takes 2 days to respond, you should take 3. If she doesn't reciprocate, just cut your losses and move on.

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ok cool thanks. the strange thing gents the day after our date she asked me what i was up to and i said was with my mates eating sushi.and then she was like ya i love sushi we must go and the she starts this not replying bussiness.

heres another question did she start this rubbish because i always end the conversation first on bbm?

cause i know some women hate this