I`ve got a bit of a problem.. In short, I was about to be with one girl, then I found this PUA stuff and fucked everything up. She fucked me off about 3 months ago, we argued several times- mostly about what mistakes have I made, how many times he gave me another chance and that I blew it everytime. When she fucked me off, it really messed me up, I stopped contacting her and I`ve been working on forgetting her and I`ve been doing pretty good, but now I figured out that i`m still pretty fucked up when I think of her or when I see her. I usually don`t have these problems with moving on to the next one, but here.. I don`t know. Somewhere along the line I fell in love with her. And I barely control myself not to write her and just ask her out or smth like that. This shit is lasting for too long, so I have to do smth quickly...
Now I`m asking for advice.. Should I continue supressing this until it goes away? Or do I just tell her smth, or ask her out, try it for the last time one night or smth?

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There are no lesbians, just women who never met Sid.

The single best antidote to cure what ails you is someone new. If empty sex and fucking lots of women won't do it, then you need to find one or two that you really like as people. When you have replaced what you feel like you lost, she'll be a thing of the past and you'll feel a lot better. Luckily for you, the skills you learn here will make getting someone who can fit the bill to be interested in you back will help a lot.

Work on your game. You will find, as I have, that being attractive can be done for any reason, not just to score a chick you never want to see again.

Best of luck my friend.

Thanks man, real good advice

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There are no lesbians, just women who never met Sid.

I am more or less experiencing the same problem but being a new member I couldn't post a thread XD. For me, I've been talking to other girls to help get my mind off her but whenever I'm alone it hits back. It worked better for me when I fill in my free time with YouTube, this forum and games. Try to see if it works for you

Yeah, I`m working my ass off to forget her.. Really everything that can distract me. Especially approaches and all that shit. And about hitting you when you are alone or doing nothing-that`s the most fucked up part of all this story that is happening to me too..
But Ill just keep pushing and eventually it will pass.
Kind a scary tough, bcs smth like this happened to me first time in my life I guess another step towards changing myself and becoming a PUA

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There are no lesbians, just women who never met Sid.