I've been going out with my GF for 3 months now.


Everything has ran very smoothly, it's actually quite crazy we haven't had a single argument. I feel completely at ease with her, and trust her completely.

We have been dating about 4 months before going out so its been serious quite a while. The 'L' word has been exchanged even.



My only concern is this:


How do I handle random guys approaching her at parties/events/bars we're both at? Its rarely happened as if we're both out we are at each other's side. But once when I was close by it sort of happened at a party. She was friendly not flirty with this douche and he soon dissapeared. I stress if I'm not with her I really don't care as I know she is a good girl. I'm just unsure of my role when I am there?


Another situation was two random guys I don't know stopped her when we were browsing in a clothing store. I wasn't by her side at the time but came to find her near the doors. They were nice fellas but I sometimes get a bit awkward if I don't know people at all and I'm on the periphery of the conversation.



So yeah.... you can't be by your gf's side all the time in such situations...how do you A) handle guys trying to open and B)guys who are probably friend zoned but you still wish to project some alpha over without looking too desperate!


Thanks

Buy him a drink! Say, "Aww, doesn't he look spiffy?" Be overly interested in anything he says.

I think as long as you don't act butt-hurt, you'll be okay.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

What I usually do its let her talk to the guy. And wont feel afected or atleast try not to be.

if the guy is being incovenient I go there and introduce myself and start talking to him let him feel part of the family .

Why do you need to outalpha those guys... you are banging them while they are fantaziase your girlfriend. Be friendly if they are rude that is something else.

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