Does anyone else do this? I made a topic about this before in too much detail but basically I have come up with this list for screening girls for LTR's for me.

Balanced amount of confidence
Good morals (traditional)
good level of self esteem
not snobbish
fun and spontaneous
caring and sweet
respectful
and someone who is open about things.

Does anyone else screen? And what do they look for and why?

I got the idea from http://www.scribd.com/doc/28849140/Prac ... ctical-Man - Practical-Female-Psychology-for-the-Practical-Man

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I am very aware that I am not the norm. I mainly screen for sexual openness and low drama. Everything else tends to sort itself out.

HOW I screen, is I drop a lot of bombs earlier on (first or second date, usually)... I tell girls I don't really do monogamy anymore and I tell them about how I've been to swinger's parties. I may also tell them about my interests in BDSM. If they can handle all that, then we're good and I put them on my FB rotation. If they are on the rotation for awhile, then I'll consider making the relationship more serious (if I like them).

If a girl doesn't sleep with me within 3 or 4 dates (tops), then I lose interest and stop calling her. I guess that's technically a type of screening.

Oh, and I'm also a big fan of anal sex so if a girl is not up for that on occasion, then she doesn't really ever have a chance at being a serious girlfriend (which, I guess, is a part of screening for sexual openness).

-Wolf

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Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html

That book i Linked above ^^^ states that don't go for woman who have said they have been hit in previous relationships, simple because if they stayed with a guy in multiple relationships they obs got aroused by it. And if you were to date her she may try and cause problems so you do get aggressive.

Anyone else think this as well?

I was also wondering as well, I have dated girls who have cheated on me and swore down that they havn't and I keep going for these. Does this mean I am just attracted to girls who are complete fucktards?

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anyone? im really interested on this subject SPAM.

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I consider myself a LTRS material kind of a girl. So I'll give you my female advice...

If you want a proper girl, you need to stop searching at bars and clubs. Those girls aren't LTRS material. Those are the kind of girls who fuck around (aka sluts). They will most likely cheat on you, and most probably don't really have traditional morals.

Now, I can't really say where you'll find a great girl specifically, but pretty much anywhere else than promiscuous places. School, library etc. You've probably heard this all before.

LTRS girls aren't easy. At least they don't WANT TO BE. So if a girl isn't giving in on the first date (or second, for a matter of fact), that's a good sign...

I consider myself pretty much a dream gf in many aspects, at least if you like a submissive traditional one. I would admit that my boyfriend has really trained me to become the kind of woman he wants for himself. So it's alright to look for girls who are "trainable". For example, anal sex can be taught lol.

So I think anti-feminism in a girl is a big plus for guys. You'll want someone who isn't all super feminist, caus those are the kind of girls who do what they want and think they can do anything caus it's "equality" and that sort of bs.

Also, look for honest ones. Introverted is good for LTRS, but make sure that she can open up to YOU. Good communication is a must.

P.S. I know what feminism means, as well as anti-feminism, just making a point here.

@Magic - The book is correct. Generally, girls who stay in abusive relationships are drawn to the emotional ups and downs. They WILL attempt to provoke this in future relationships. I've experienced this first-hand (i.e. incidentally, it's now my "worst date ever" story which I tell to most new girls I meet).

As to the second point, girls cheat for a lot of different reason. Sometimes it's the guys fault and sometimes it's just because the girls a "freak" and she likes the attention. Good girls WILL cheat when a relationship is going badly.

@Supple - Welcome to the forums. It's always refreshing to have a female opinion on this stuff every once in awhile (and, yes, I'm totally supplicating to the girl). Incidentally, good girls go to clubs on occasion and "slutty" girls go to church sometimes too. This is why learning to screen for certain types of girls is important.

Furthermore, I haven't really found there to be much correlation between what type a girl is and when they have sex with me. For example, second date sex seems to be the norm for nearly all the girls I meet through online dating. I can only think of two girls I've had sex with on the first date (via online): one was a very nice girl (if a bit socially awkward) and the other was a total freak-show.

-Wolf

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Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html

WolfWood -

I seem to get attached to girls pretty easy. And the ones I do get attached to seems to go shit. Or they have boy friends.

My cheating ex sluts SPAM is a really nice girl who i get on with well. I have gotto know her really well since splitting up with my ex and she has really good morals. I think she may be attracted to me, but I'm not so for her.

Shes pretty, and when i was with my ex i did look at her body in the kitchen some days. Do you think this is because I am just attracted to girls who treat me like shit?

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Okay, first of all, stop being such a bitter ex-boyfriend. I know your sore about how your previous relationship turned out, but lets not start girl-hating here. She wasn't buying what you were selling. It happens. There's no need to call her names.

Next, it would be really unfortunate if you were only attracted to girls who treat you badly. Hopefully that is not the care. Even if it is, try to respond appropriately to bad behavior. Also, try not to get too emotionally attached to girls so quickly. Make sure they treat you well (consistently) before getting into a serious relationship. Don't ever promise monogamy to a girl until you KNOW she really likes you and treats you well.

-Wolf

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Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html