So this time of year has come around again, I have been with my GF for over a year now and have no idea If I should spoil her and become an AFC for a day or just get her a little something and leave it at that? What are you guys going to do? I know what I'd like to do, I like the whole Idea of making your GF feel special this time of year but... I don't know if I should be a AFC or not What are you guys doing?

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

if shes been your girl friend for over a year, do something nice, something she can tell all her friends about.

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Law of Attraction

I like this question as well. What if she is not a g/f but some girl from uni or day game you met once. Do you ask her clicheyly (AFC) or what?

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-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

Lol, some of you guys are hilarious. You're worried that you might be doing an AFC move, if you did something special for someone you most probably love, and have been in a relationship with for over a year? Really? A lot of the rules that apply in pick up don't have any relevance in a LTR.

I wasnt talking about LTR haha I think if ur in a relationship you have the girl you can give her a present obviously, but what about a diff girl u just met...

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Best of Luck
-Raphael

Aspiring Artist

Read the adventures I take as I discover my way towards becoming a mPUA or a dPUA (decent PUA) including completing the StyleChallenge ---> raphaels-journel-vt119594.html

If you've been with her for a year, do something nice.
Take her out.

what about girlfriend of 4 months?

I want to best chip in my two cents for this question the best I can because I currently have a girlfriend that I had for 2 months.

I find that giving any girl a title Girlfriend commands a bit more respect then your average fuck buddy. But consider all the feelings you have..

When i am in a relationship I am about the feelings as much as she is. It is a good part of what we are so I consider them often.

Personally I want to go all out for my GF of 2 months HB8.. I will prob spend about 100 bucks on her just to let her know she is special to me... After all she is.. I gave her the title Girlfriend!

AFC or not this should not be a concern with a Girlfriend. If you think like this, checky check check your EGO son!!

Thats my two cents, plus a nickle..

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Don't forget the ones, that helped make me, the man I like becoming!

Cha-Bra no offence but after reading your other post about you been a cheat, You can not call your " Girlfriend " Special to you etc... She couldn't of been so special for you to cheat on her. So I think it is you that needs to check your ego " son "

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

If you two are in a serious relationship, then absolutely do something that will make her feel special, but don't go overboard. The amount of money, time, and effort you put into this should be directly proportional to how long you been with her. So if you've been with her for a year, $100 would be acceptable. Been with her for 4 months, dinner at a decent restaurant and a movie. Been with her less than 2 months, burn her a CD.

Don't be one of those chumps who puts out a lot of money when the relationship is still new. She will be expecting the same SPAM next year, most likely even more.

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Pretty little girls, so used to getting your way. Along comes a man who challenges you, and suddenly you don't know what to say.

I agree completely. I've made the same mistake time and time again - I always end up going way over the top for Valentine's Day. $80 for the best restaurant in town (wine is expensive), $100-120 for decent presents, and then some emotional shit like a poem (yes I wrote a poem once, fuck off my back about it) or flowers which can vary from free to $50+. While you're guaranteed to get some brownie points for outdoing all of her friends' boyfriends, you'll have to try even harder next time to impress her and outdo yourself or you're fucked. It's a slippery slope.

Make the day special, take her to a park and out to a nice restaurant or something to that extent, and maybe throw in a light present. Just make sure you don't go overboard. And seriously, stop trying to game your girlfriend if you've been with her for an entire year already. You're allowed to be gay at this point.

I got a girl that i had been with for a year a message in a bottle once. I have never seen a reaction to a gift like the one she gave me. Instant panty-dropper.

https://www.timelessmessage.com/
^Click the link^

What about a dirty sexy poem?

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hootsmon

I remember there was a website where you could fill in some general information about you and the girl, and the website would create a sex story for you. It was good for a few laughs and they're actually written well enough to turn some people on. I can't recall the name of the website, but if I remember I'll pm you.

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Pretty little girls, so used to getting your way. Along comes a man who challenges you, and suddenly you don't know what to say.

I just found it again. PM sent.

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Pretty little girls, so used to getting your way. Along comes a man who challenges you, and suddenly you don't know what to say.