I have split up with my gf recently and miss her a lot. I cry whenever I talk to her or often when I see one of her things that she has left round mine and I have find it hard to concentrate on work recently.

Also my game is rubbish now. I found it easier to talk to girl when I was with her (just in a friendly way) and felt more confident but now I feel much more shy. My game before my gf want good though so maybe its just thats how I am when I'm single. I'm not sure if its lack of desire to approach or approach anxiety, probably both I guess. I think when I was single before I was a lot more motivated to push through the AA.

dude, i feel what you are saying, my gf recently cheated on me and I feel like an emotional mess. I know a lot of PUA's say man up, fuck her, forget about it, but being human it is hard. Just need to take a bit of time i guess. xD

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Law of Attraction

We've all been there, Time heals all wounds just pick yourself up and forget about going out meeting women for now. spend sometime on yourself, Improve yourself get a hobby spend some quality time with your friends/family. You'll soon be back on your feet with the women.

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

How long were you together?



The longer a relationship lasts, assuming you stop gaming other women, of course your game will suffer.


I would never in a million years cheat on anyone but it shouldn't stop you from expanding your social circle and talking to other women.


Obviously don't trip yourself up and get very flirtatious, but I reckon you have to keep things ticking over for this exact situation.


Plus it will breed confidence and its always good to know you're desirable.