I keep reading posts that say to make your girlfriend jealous of other girls...

It keeps her attracted to you... wanting you... reaffirms that she loves you when you see her angry reaction... but finally I believe it shows insecurity in you.

Small doses of it may be healthy, not necessarily to make her jealous, but ill agree its definitely healthy to still meet and talk to other girls while you are in a relationship. . . Whether this makes her jealous though, I'm not sure it would...

So a way to make your girlfriend jealous would be to actually TRY to make her jealous... which I believe is only useful if you're insecure in the relationship, and need to see a jealous reaction from her, to help reaffirm to you that she loves you.. etc...

Im currently seeing a girl who Ive never seen get jealous from anything I do. Maybe inside she is, but shes never shown it. I find it extremely attractive that it doesnt bother her, when I tell her the things I do. Its almost like sometimes I have been fishing for a jealous reaction from her to see that she cares, which I soon realized is actually out of my own insecurity... Its unlike any girl ive dated before, I guess thats why I like it... Previous girlfriends would throw big tantrums, which actually used to reassure me that Ive got them in check... looking back now its not really the way to go about it.

And it was with this girl, I realized:

There's another way to go about jealousy in a relationship

Instead of making your girlfriend jealous of other girls... Why not make other girls jealous of your girlfriend?

This would have tenfold effectiveness. Here are just some of the reasons why:

- Well we know girls want what the others want. They are jealous little creatures... Its the reason we try to make them jealous of other girls in the first place, because it will make them want you more.... But instead, if other girls are getting jealous of your girlfriend, then hey... your girlfriend will want to be your girlfriend even more!

- If you happen to break up, the dozens of girls that saw how great of a boyfriend you were will remember that and will probably pounce at you on the rebound!

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