well here it is i was dating this girl for about 6 months we were very happy and we were going to have a kid together but since shes younger than me her mom made her have an abortion and she didnt let her talk to me or see me any longer... after this i think i have gone into a sort of depression mode which i realize it now... we kept talking for 2 months or so being pretty ok just seeing her once every two weeks or when i could. But things just got harder and i just became involed with weed i got lazy and depressed all my goals were going to waste and i was no longer doing anything with my life she got tired of this and broke up with me she said she was tired of empty promises and she just wanted to be friends.. its been 2 months and im still talking to her now she found out that i cheated on her and she didnt want to talk to me anymore.. but then she said it was alright and it didnt matter now im talking to her again trying to get back with her its hard for us to see each other but i still feel like she has feeling for me.. like when she found out i cheated on her she said not to call her anymore and then she called me now we are talking and i promised i would stop smoking of course i said for myself and i told her i would get back to fighting which was what i like to do... she dosent seem to intrested anymore and i know she has a bunch of guy firieds.. i just want to make thing right and i want her to be attracted to me like she once was i think she still likes me deep down and she want me to get better and thats why she still contacts me but she really acts indiffrent and sometimes shes an asshole but sometimes she can be cute

im going over to her house on saturday how do suggest i approch this and how do i act with her on the phone with some intrest no intrest or inbetween?? also should i be contacting her and how much??? what should i do to get her back please help