Next month, I'm leaving my country for a holiday. I'll be away for 10 days. The very same day I told my gf about it she invited her male friend to come over stating I'll be away so she can meet him. She'd even take a day off from work. They see each other about 3-4 times a year. I know he'd do her.

What the hell?

Bottom line: She doesn't know I know. I've got some really good friends.

edit - We've broken up once before because I found out she was spying on me We're back together for about a month. She's never cheated on me before (I am pretty sure) but expects me to have cheated on her multiple times. She was really bitter after we broke up. Now everything seems fine. Well, everything but this.

I feel sorry for you man, although this all to common, which is why i don't get into relationships. Doesn't necessarily mean she's going to fuck him, but what's it matter?

Dump the bitch or continue fucking her as much as possible, or even better go around fucking other girls and make sure she knows it.

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I might stick with fucking her, going stealth and dumping her once I come back from vacation, being sure she cheated on me. Sounds like the best deal I can make out of this.

Anyway, she's just lost all value she had for me. My further investment in her is going to be big round 0. I won't initiate conversations, I won't schedule meetings, nothing. I'll just meet her, fuck her and leave. Rinse and repeat.

How did you find out?

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

I can't tell. I don't know who else is reading this topic and I don't want to get anyone in trouble because of me.

Nvm, so she didnt tell you.

Dump her now. before your vacation it will fuck her mind out.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Seeing that she didn't tell you, that means that something's up. If there was nothing sketchy about it she'd be up front with you about it.

The biggest mistake men make when breaking up with a girl, is not having a plan b. The girl is ALMOST ALWAYS the first person to sleep with someone after a break up.

I would find or sleep with someone as a preemptive strike, and then break up with her.

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Bottom line: It's a deal breaker. Leave now.

Whether she had any plans for something to "happen" with him does not matter. You don't need these kinds of issues in your life. Replace with different girl.

Also, whether or not she sleeps with someone first after the break up does not matter in the slightest. It's not a competition, just remove her from your life as quickly and cleanly as possible and progress from there. What or who she does next is of no concern to you. It's better not to put up with her toxicity while you look for somebody new. Best be free.