Background:

GF was previously in a very abusive relationship.
We have been dating 1.5 years.
Our relationship had to transition into long distance around the year mark due to a change in job.

Current situation:

Her ex recently contacted her via email. She informed me and showed me the email. The usual crap, how sorry he is bla bla bla. 2 weeks later she informs me that he called her and they spoke, but all she told him was "thank you for the apology" and said she does not wish to be friends.

Turns out she lied, he sent a follow up email which she forwarded to me,to my surprise it contained the mail trail of messages she clearly had previously deleted (she clearly did not spot that the email trail was there) -the mail trail contained her giving her number to her ex. When i confronted her about it she said she wanted closure and gave it to him so she could tell him she has a bf and is moving to my city (which was the plan).

What pissed me off was how unashamed she was about lying. All she said was sorry and that she did not tell me because i would be upset. She then wrote me a soppy email about how she is such a nice person and tries really really hard to be a good gf but always messes things up, (recently she has had a number of challenges relating to money and her parents she has been quite depressed) and she ends the note saying "humans die all the time, she will just speed up the process"

So i freaked out a little bit and called her right away, we ended up skyping until early hours of the morning and i felt i seriously could no longer be angry with her while things are this shit for her. So i had to forgive her.

Internally i was still pissed off as i really have invested a lot into her. The next day while skyping she went to shower and i forgot that SPAM was still on. A friend called me (mobile phone) and i complained about how pissed i was but i felt compelled and forced into forgiving her. She overheard.

My chick freaks out goes off SPAM. switches her phone off, and becomes uncontactable. I call her friends they dont know where she is. Im worried af but at the same time worried she may be with her ex.

She eventually calls me at 2:30 and says she wants to talk. We talk and she tells me she went out. I get pissed off, that a day after she writes a suicide not she goes out without telling anyone i tell her ill talk to her in the morning.

Come the next morning i am bombarded with messages. Long story short i end it with her as "she disrespected me, broke my trust and acted completely irrationally and recklessly. She also refuses to see why what she did was wrong. She actually did not really seem to care at all after i broke up with her and said she is coming to get her stuff next week.

Besides the recent events she has actually been one of the more sane girls i have dated. She has only been acting strangely very recently. Could be the ex? She also wants to move in with me at the end of this year which im not too keen on.

Sorry for the crappy English i am so hungover right now.

Any comments? Am i being an idiot? Was i correct in walking away?

Thanks any advice will be helpful.

Always walk away from girls who commit or threaten suicide. Good job BUT this post should not be here in this section.

Now, workout on the regular, stay away from sweets and hangout with your friends a lot more.

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Get some space man. Seems like this whole situation reeks of emotions running high. Vent to your boys...keep doing that.

And rethink about your relationship...girls who threaten suicide...ehh...

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