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PostPosted: Tue May 01, 2012 1:22 pm 
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ok guys i'm not sure if i am in the correct place but if not tell me where should i post.
Basically i'm in a very complicated situation it's about 3 girls
I am in a relationship right now and i don't know what i want.
I'll use photos to make clear picture of the girls.

First this is me: https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hp ... 2969_n.jpg

This my current GF: https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hp ... 3138_n.jpg

This is my ex GF with me (2 years relationship): https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hp ... 7910_n.jpg

Now girls that attracted to me and talk to me everyday

Lee: https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hp ... 0321_n.jpg

Karina: https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hp ... 4611_n.jpg

Now my problem before i discovers the PUA community and all books out there
i was in a relationship with a very beautiful woman you can see in the picture.
Looking back then i was so stupid not man at all but the relationship started being lost only after 1 and half year and it was still without lies or cheating but i felt that love was getting gone so i finally decided to break up with her, and we lived together. We broke up she tried to contact me again after awhile and i didn't want to end up getting back to her cause i'm desperate to get a woman as beautiful as
her.
i really built the relationship well but i was getting lame at the end..

and now a year have passed 3-4 months after learning Natural game and pick up
i was able to quick learn stuff like body language IOI's signals from woman correct way to approach be attractive to woman.
I really love all beautiful woman like many man out there...
So at the current time i have my GF that i can't stop comparing to my ex gf on beauty cause my current GF doesn't take care of herself.
the other 2 defiantly want me with LEE (see on the picture) we talk all day long she just waits for every message from me and we talk about sex and i make her imagine stuff and turn her on and stuff like that..
we talked about meeting we probably eat each other, she agreed that this what will happen if we meet.

About Karina she is a very busy girl she study hard and work a lot
every time she has she writes me we go out sometimes and talk. Her body language show me that she is into me and the way she touch me and talk.

now i am really lost cause i got options like i always wanted and i scared to screw it all up.
basically i want all girls together but that's most likely not possible all of them at age 17 and i'm 20 years old solider XD
( i want everyone of them but don't to hurt anyone)
i really need some tips how to continue ...


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PostPosted: Tue May 01, 2012 1:38 pm 
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ok guys i'm not sure if i am in the correct place but if not tell me where should i post.
Basically i'm in a very complicated situation it's about 3 girls
I am in a relationship right now and i don't know what i want.
I'll use photos to make clear picture of the girls.

First this is me: https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hp ... 2969_n.jpg

This my current GF: https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hp ... 3138_n.jpg

This is my ex GF with me (2 years relationship): https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hp ... 7910_n.jpg

Now girls that attracted to me and talk to me everyday

Lee: https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hp ... 0321_n.jpg

Karina: https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hp ... 4611_n.jpg

Now my problem before i discovers the PUA community and all books out there
i was in a relationship with a very beautiful woman you can see in the picture.
Looking back then i was so stupid not man at all but the relationship started being lost only after 1 and half year and it was still without lies or cheating but i felt that love was getting gone so i finally decided to break up with her, and we lived together. We broke up she tried to contact me again after awhile and i didn't want to end up getting back to her cause i'm desperate to get a woman as beautiful as
her.
i really built the relationship well but i was getting lame at the end..

and now a year have passed 3-4 months after learning Natural game and pick up
i was able to quick learn stuff like body language IOI's signals from woman correct way to approach be attractive to woman.
I really love all beautiful woman like many man out there...
So at the current time i have my GF that i can't stop comparing to my ex gf on beauty cause my current GF doesn't take care of herself.
the other 2 defiantly want me with LEE (see on the picture) we talk all day long she just waits for every message from me and we talk about sex and i make her imagine stuff and turn her on and stuff like that..
we talked about meeting we probably eat each other, she agreed that this what will happen if we meet.

About Karina she is a very busy girl she study hard and work a lot
every time she has she writes me we go out sometimes and talk. Her body language show me that she is into me and the way she touch me and talk.

now i am really lost cause i got options like i always wanted and i scared to screw it all up.
basically i want all girls together but that's most likely not possible all of them at age 17 and i'm 20 years old solider XD
( i want everyone of them but don't to hurt anyone)
i really need some tips how to continue ...

Lets see what we have here...

1. Current girlfriend: You have a girlfriend right now but you're not 100% in love with her because she doesn't take care of herself all the time. I was once there, I get it, you want the hottest piece of ass you can get. You know, to show off to your buddies and shit. You're young and still shallow. Understandable. You have to ask herself...do you see yourself with this girl in the future and long term? If not...its better to let that shit go now. But its your decision. I just find things get messy when you screw around.

2. Ex-girlfriend: Straight up. Move on. You just showed me a number of other girls that are available. You break up with a girl for a reason. Don't think because you are more smoother now because of reading PUA and shit you're going to maintain the relationship better. Usually it just doesn't work that way. And of course you're going to compare girls to your Exs, its natural. But remember, all games can't be the Superbowl, you're going to play good and bad games before you get your ring.

3. Lee: FWB. Too promiscuous sounding. Keep that on the DL. Don't fall in, good for getting in and out. Always remain the cool guy with her.

4. Karina: Shes got ambition, you want to get with her? Work on yourself, shes probably one of those girls who is attracted to guys who got shit going on. BUT don't be overly cocky.

So in the end it comes to what you want? You can try to have it all but in the end man, it ain't going to fly easy.

If it was me, I'd stick with your current girl and just work on yourself, the better looking you get, the more girls usually work on themselves. And if honestly she can't keep up in the future, you'll have done so well for yourself, girls be flockin' homes.

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PostPosted: Tue May 01, 2012 2:07 pm 
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ok guys i'm not sure if i am in the correct place but if not tell me where should i post.
Basically i'm in a very complicated situation it's about 3 girls
I am in a relationship right now and i don't know what i want.
I'll use photos to make clear picture of the girls.

First this is me: https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hp ... 2969_n.jpg

This my current GF: https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hp ... 3138_n.jpg

This is my ex GF with me (2 years relationship): https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hp ... 7910_n.jpg

Now girls that attracted to me and talk to me everyday

Lee: https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hp ... 0321_n.jpg

Karina: https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hp ... 4611_n.jpg

Now my problem before i discovers the PUA community and all books out there
i was in a relationship with a very beautiful woman you can see in the picture.
Looking back then i was so stupid not man at all but the relationship started being lost only after 1 and half year and it was still without lies or cheating but i felt that love was getting gone so i finally decided to break up with her, and we lived together. We broke up she tried to contact me again after awhile and i didn't want to end up getting back to her cause i'm desperate to get a woman as beautiful as
her.
i really built the relationship well but i was getting lame at the end..

and now a year have passed 3-4 months after learning Natural game and pick up
i was able to quick learn stuff like body language IOI's signals from woman correct way to approach be attractive to woman.
I really love all beautiful woman like many man out there...
So at the current time i have my GF that i can't stop comparing to my ex gf on beauty cause my current GF doesn't take care of herself.
the other 2 defiantly want me with LEE (see on the picture) we talk all day long she just waits for every message from me and we talk about sex and i make her imagine stuff and turn her on and stuff like that..
we talked about meeting we probably eat each other, she agreed that this what will happen if we meet.

About Karina she is a very busy girl she study hard and work a lot
every time she has she writes me we go out sometimes and talk. Her body language show me that she is into me and the way she touch me and talk.

now i am really lost cause i got options like i always wanted and i scared to screw it all up.
basically i want all girls together but that's most likely not possible all of them at age 17 and i'm 20 years old solider XD
( i want everyone of them but don't to hurt anyone)
i really need some tips how to continue ...

Lets see what we have here...

1. Current girlfriend: You have a girlfriend right now but you're not 100% in love with her because she doesn't take care of herself all the time. I was once there, I get it, you want the hottest piece of ass you can get. You know, to show off to your buddies and shit. You're young and still shallow. Understandable. You have to ask herself...do you see yourself with this girl in the future and long term? If not...its better to let that shit go now. But its your decision. I just find things get messy when you screw around.

2. Ex-girlfriend: Straight up. Move on. You just showed me a number of other girls that are available. You break up with a girl for a reason. Don't think because you are more smoother now because of reading PUA and shit you're going to maintain the relationship better. Usually it just doesn't work that way. And of course you're going to compare girls to your Exs, its natural. But remember, all games can't be the Superbowl, you're going to play good and bad games before you get your ring.

3. Lee: FWB. Too promiscuous sounding. Keep that on the DL. Don't fall in, good for getting in and out. Always remain the cool guy with her.

4. Karina: Shes got ambition, you want to get with her? Work on yourself, shes probably one of those girls who is attracted to guys who got shit going on. BUT don't be overly cocky.

So in the end it comes to what you want? You can try to have it all but in the end man, it ain't going to fly easy.

If it was me, I'd stick with your current girl and just work on yourself, the better looking you get, the more girls usually work on themselves. And if honestly she can't keep up in the future, you'll have done so well for yourself, girls be flockin' homes.
Thank you so much mate that is really something i have been wanting to hear
and I really just want to feel something for the current girl but i can't feel anything yet just sexual tension hope something will change .
I'll continue to play with the other girls though cause Style's said
If you don't try you 100% lose something that could be happening
and i can't live with regret .

I'd like to hear more from guys on forum =)
so thanks again.


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PostPosted: Wed May 02, 2012 7:47 am 
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I think it was already said pretty perfectly, i just want to add one thing here. If you do decide to break up with he current girl, just be honest with the others about your intentions. I've found that most girls are actually cool about you being in a MLTR if your upfront about it. Im not sure if that is what you want, but if so there's tons of material out there on managing MLTR's

"I just broke up with my girlfriend and im not looking for anything serious right now" would be an awesome low risk line to seed the idea for an MLTR


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I admit your concern.


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