19 year old, first proper relationship, been with her for about 6 months. its not always been perfect, ive slept with two of her friends (she didn't find out) and shes got with a friend of mine. this was all a good few months ago, yeah there's been arguments since, but this is as serious as ive been with a girl

today, after a couple of slight dick moves on my part, tells me that, 'im not what she wants me to be' 'im selfish' 'only worry about myself' so on and so on

so basically she's told me all this, now, my next move....

tips on bouncing back, getting back in the game, dealing with the breakup?

what is your goal:

- to get back with her?

or

- to move on clean?

or (option 3, like most guys in this forum)

- be wishy-washy, indecisive, and back-and-forth?

lol

* we need to know which advice you are looking for *

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Somthing similar happened to me recently

I did what most men shouldnt do. Not listen to my mates, kept trying to hang out with her did all the things to push her away.

Forget about her, move on. Meet new chicks thats the best thing you could do. No point in dwelling on what happend.

Not to sure if it helps

im no expert, in fact, im a virgin, but i think what people need to do really is define love. I used to think i was in love with my girlfriend, im still dating her, but im just not as dumb now. Love to me is this.

Love is what a woman has for a man in the army, he is away for multiple years, but she never cheats, never even considers cheating, and waits for her man so they can live happily ever after. The love between these two people was so powerful that it could withstand the threat of death, and seperation.

You (along with myself and everybody else) think they are in love, when there "love" cant even withstand the test of time. Real love cant be broken, this love is broken by the weakest force out there