Hi guys,

Just a general query really. There's a woman I used to go out with, and I still see her once a week, but only in the gym. She broke it off a while back but we still hang out occasionally (When it suits me I hasten to add!)

If I wanted to shag her again, how could I approach it... or is the very fact that I'm trying to mean I'm gonna fail?

Just for info... I'm quite low down on the PUA ladder at the minute, and am having limited success, but am starting to learn more and get out in the field a couple of times a week, so it would just be nice if I could get it on with her in the mean time - I'm not trying to hurt her though - she is single!

Thanks

Zan

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First off, I don't like getting involved with girls from the past. But if you insist, your going to have to show social proof. Have other girls laughing and flirting with you where she can see it. And make sure she is working to get you,not the other way around.

GL

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Thanks axtion.

Nice to have an objective view on it. Thankfully I'm not too hooked on her, I just like being with her sexually everyso often.

I think I know the best thing to do is just forget about her and work on Game, but if I can do one whilst doing the other, I suppose it's all good.

I just struggle to know how to reply to her texts and things to ramp up her interest/attraction. Do I/don't I reply.. how friendly should I be etc..

I'll understand better with time and experience I guess!

Zan

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"The journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step"

- Lao-tzu, The Way of Lao-tzu
Chinese philosopher (604 BC - 531 BC)

how did it went mate?

Hiya Iwan,

Well, it's as I thought really. I think she just like to hang out with me now because we do fun things together.. but she's just not interested in sex with me anymore.

For this reason, I'm pulling back and minimizing contact to just a surface level thing. It's not fair on me if I'm not getting what I want out of our "relationship", so spending time with her is a waste of my time.

I'm just going to sarge on!!

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"The journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step"

- Lao-tzu, The Way of Lao-tzu
Chinese philosopher (604 BC - 531 BC)

hmm try to make her intrested:)
I'd suggest that:
- break contact or minimize it,
- fuck some other girls, she'll find out, trust me:)
- break the pattern - this is golden - (I've heard it on some onlp coaching, how to change first impression) - if You were to nice, change it etc. - now a lot of people is missing that: change your looks. People tend to think in pictures, the impression she got of You is connected to your picture in her head. It works like a charm trust me:)
Good luck mate!