Hey guys, i will be potentially be in a relationship soon and i need some tips and tricks to stay the charismatic and PUA'like guy i am when i'm just flirting with girls. In other words how can i stay out of AFC mode, when in a serious relationship? Would appreciate serious help.

-T-Rex

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Be as you wish to seem - Socrates

I could fill a book answering this question, but here are the basics:

Be alpha and don't fall for obvious betaization attempts (i.e. shit tests). Remember that, as the man, it is your job to lead.. so be a decision maker. Don't put up with drama. Always bring your A-game in the bedroom. Stay confident. Don't get needy. Don't get openly jealous of other dudes trying to hit on your girlfriend. If you MUST be monogamous (not my cup of tea), then keep flirting and gaming to keep your skills up and to keep up a healthy social circle. Have your own friends/life outside of the relationship.

Did I miss anything?

-Wolf

separate finances

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

The most important thing is to have friends outside the relationship, dont let her be your whole world, because then she will care less about you, and if you break up, you will be devistated.