Hey guys,

So to learn pick up we all read "The Game" by Neil Strauss. And we follow the rules of pick up. What books or articles or who do we turn to to learn Relationships? I now that it is different. I feel like I am making my relationship worse by continuing to use negs and pick up things. Who is the "Neil Strauss" or Mystery of Relationships that we can trust? Any good websites? Thanks

There aren't many.

Matt Huston has one called "Train Your Girlfriend." It's the only one I can recall off the top of my head.

You can find it here: http://www.girlfriendtrainer.com/

Someday, when I have time, I plan to write a fully comprehensive relationship manual.

I think they're a lot of great books out there. One of my favorites was "Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida. The book really helped me put a lot of things into perspective. It was because of that book I was able to see me critical errors in my past relationship (I actually ended up email my ex and said "Is this what you mean't blah blah blah and was this what I was suppose to do blah blah blah". The book is great. I'd also recommend "Dating to Relating" by Mr. L RX the book is half pick up half relationship stuff. It's a good read too. I didn't learn as much about my errors in that book but I did learn some really good solid information. Anyway hope that helps.

I just skimmed over Way of the Superior Man, and it seems like a good one. I'll check out the other one later. Thanks for the recommendations!

No problem. Way of the Superior Man changed my life.

Thanks guys. I've just started reading the Train your girlfriend by Matt Huston and it is pure GOLD! I'm so glad I'm reading this now before I get farther down the relationship road. Also I will definitely check out the superior man. Awesome to know there are some books out there and now I don't feel completely lost!