So, I've banged this chick 4 times. I've licked her asshole, and I also inserted one finger in there at some point when she was giving me a BJ. I know she likes it when I lick her asshole.

I'm wondering how I should tell her that I want to fuck her up the ass... just like that? "I want to fuck you up the ass" or is it something you ask?

AFAIK, alpha males don't ask women for permission, they simply tell them what they want and do it. Does this philosophy apply in this case?

Not sure what you guys think, but IMO, once you fuck a girl up the ass, and then you tell her that her ass belongs to you while you fuck her, and make her say it ("all yours, baby, all yours") she's yours.

OMG I am so sick of what is Alpha and what is not. Seriously you need to get over that crap. Dude, when you are into things and she is letting you get a finger in there I'd say you probably got a GREEN LIGHT for anal sex.

I would just get behind her and try to move my thing to her butt and put some pressure there. At that moment if she doesn't want it you'll be able to tell via her body language or she'll say something. Otherwise proceed slowly and don't get pissed if she tells you No, just go back to what you were doing.

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just run up and ram her

NO LUBE!

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

I typically bring it up by mentioning offhandedly that I enjoy it on occasion (for the variety). Then I ask her if she's done it before. Most girls have one bad past experience where they experimented with a clueless guy and then never want to do it again. If that's the case, then I mock their AFC ex-boyfriend and explain to her how awesome it can be when done correctly (i.e. lots of lube, extremely slow at first, a lot of clitoral stimulation).

This usually does the trick. They are usually curious enough to give it another attempt. Then again, I screen for sexually adventurous women. If a girl absolutely wont try anal EVER for whatever reason.. then that's a pretty good indicator that she's not going to be around very long.

-Wolf