i like this girl and i was thinking of asking her out but im not sure what to do or say.

because i was thinking of getting them away from there friends and just saying hey i like you do you want to be my gf ??

what do you guys think ??

Totally the wrong sub forum. Not going to get any help here... Remove the post and try in General Questions. When you do, give us more information.

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Man you could try to do that to see how it works. But don't make a big deal out of it, because if she sees, that you are indifferent of the outcome and that you have nothing to lose, if she rejects you, she will be very attracted.

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Very simple you dont ask her out......once you ask out someone think about it what do people do? well usually they dress up both of them do trying to look there best and when they do hang out most the time they only try to impress the other person. Basically to keep it simple there is some strange SPAM surrounding going out of dates. How should i act, what should i wear, what should i say blah blah blah....

How about you plan on doing something like baseball game, football game, going to the beach, walking your dog whatever you can think of. Then go up to her start a conversation and then lean into your plans on say saturday.

For instance your talking blah blah blah......then somehow work in there that your going to say your schools local football game and that she should come along.

This is a hell of a lot better than asking her out on a date.

Be warned though....if a girl doesnt find you atttractive she is going to say no most the time. If she isnt interested in knowing you...she will say no most the time..

Basically what is going on in her mind when you ask is do i want to get to know him better....and extensions of that getting to know you better are can i see myself dating him and do i find him attractive.

But that is MOST the time so perhaps she said yes she will go to the football game with you....maybe she is looking to date and justs thinks it be fun to hang out..

unfortunely you will never really know unless you asked her straight up why she agreed to go with you....but dont bother asking..

just have fun with it and see where things lead


the benefit of asking her out in this way is

number one.....in her mind its not a date, so she isnt going to act all fake getting you to try and like her as much as she would on a date

rejection isnt as harsh as if you asked her out

the gig isnt up as in do you find her attractive/want to date her. You can consider asking out a girl to be in the same category as giving her your balls.

Sadly once you ask a girl out on a date your actually going to have to work harder to get her to be your girlfriend than if you just hung out with her a few times because on dates you size each other up qualitys i want, are they saying the right things etc. Just hanging out your just hanging out and having fun your not analyzing events and what not.....But i'll let you know now if she isnt interested in you, attracted to you, doesnt want a boyfriend, has a boyfriend etc. Then neither will work.

Questions?


I said a lot so if i slipped up wording or contradicted myself somewhere let me know

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First of all you should arrange a party and invite her after then continue meet her in different place like garden hotel club when she free with you then you purpose.

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