We haven't spoken all day, so obviously we are in a fight. I just tried calling her, to which she hung up, I then texted her saying 'guess we arent going to talk today?', she replied 'busy'. I tried calling again, she hung up, and then i messaged her saying, you dont have to act rude, actually, nevermind, what was I thinking.

Why the fuck is she doing that?

If she calls, I guess im going to do the same to her.

damn that hurt to read, trained? How am i trained by her, im 3 years older than her

You deserve to be treated like this. Take a long look at yourself

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It's all part of your training. It's a sad state of affairs but in relationships across the land there are women who "wear the trousers" in the relationship. They see there mums doing it with their dads and assume that; that's just the way it is, they watch and learn from their mums and when they hit dating age they actively seek out week or needy men to control and train them to become just like their dads.

Secretly though (unless they're feminazis) they long to be sexually dominated by a man as it turns them on no end. It's very likely that your "girlfriend" is getting used and abused by another guy to satisfy her sexual needs.

It's the luck of the draw (bad in your case) that you met but you can always call it quits and try another table to play.

Yeah. Sure. Your girlfriend is a special snowflake unlike all the other girls. Right. I know she's not your ex yet but I'd suggest you read this thread - relationships/the-guys-who-want-their-b ... 92365.html

Jesus H. Christ...


RUN FORREST RUN! You're a definition of a doormat. I haven't seen this kind of a disrespect even in bad jokes


I suggest you fucking dump her while you still have some psyche left intact.

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Wtf, why are you saying that? I dont understand what the fuck I did in this sentence for you to say jeezish christ.

You are letting her slide with that bitchi attitude... See? I provoked the shit out of you and you got mad, but If she said the same thing you would still kiss her ass by giving her THE ATTENTION she doesn't deserve. I didn't meant to be atrocious towards you OP. It's just, she's sucking the last bits of life from within you. Find the girl that has some degree of MINIMUM respect.


See how motivated you are by visiting this forum seeking help about this girl, she isn't worth it.


Piece.

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Because he can read. We have all unanimously told you to move on. Not one person supports your therapy seeking

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Therapy seeking is how you improve. Im doing what is said above, and I am feeling better. I feel like any other day I would call her, text her, try and fix it, but since yesterday, she called, we spoke for two minutes and she pissed me off so I said I'm going to go. We texted a bit after, to which she got mad and said have a nice night, I replied 'sure you too', she called later on, I didnt pick up. Its now the next day and I dont think ill text her at all if she doesn't.

However, a part of me feels bad because this all happened about me maybe over reacting about not getting sex?

Do you think this thread - relationships/the-guys-who-want-their-b ... 92365.html - applies to those who are still in a relationship like mine?

If only life was this easy - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9f347m914gY

Look. Your girlfriend wanted to have sex during the sleepover. You didn't make a move. You didn't take action. Instead, you TALKED your way out of sex that night by asking, "Can I eat your pussy" or whatever.

Again. Next time (with any girl), DON"T ask.

Escalate.

If your dick was rock hard that night and you ground your cock at her ass, nibbled her ear lobe or placed her hand at your hard, throbbing cock, this shouldn't be a problem at all. You think she is abusing you BECAUSE you are allowing her to be dominant by taking a submissive frame.

For now, get ANGRY and get MAD at her. Let her know. This will make her VERY horny. Eventually, you know logically at the back of your head that this is NOT the right girl for you and that you should dump her and move on.

But this takes time. You might as well experience the process and learn several hard lessons from the emotional pain so you will always remember in the future NOT to be submissive again.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

That's the thing, I normally NEVER use to ask. EVER. I swear to god. I always have and had a throbbing hard cock when im with her, I would escalate, touch her, kiss her, nibble her ear, grab her ass. It use to work. After 6 months in the relationship, she started saying no. She started saying 'lets just go to sleep', or 'i dont want to have sex, we can be a couple and not have sex'.

It fucking annoys me. She genuinely just doesn't like sex that much, she says its been that way since she remembers. I figured I started to try a new method 'i cant wait to eat you out tonight, or do the position we did that one time again tonight', and if she has a positive reaction i know I am in and before bed I can even say 'but you said we could...'. Thats what its fucking come to.

She doesnt even want me to last long in bed, she wants me to cum in 3 minutes or 5 minutes. Its a fucking joke. However three nights ago, i fucked her for 30 minutes and it was the best sex we ever had, she asked me not to cum in her, but she annoyed me a lot in the day so I did, and she quiffed everywhere haha, so I thought we would build on that, and obviiously... we havent.

Emotional attachment issues from her end. Always assess her actions and not her words. She cooked you breakfast without you asking.

After an argument with her, play her this song:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MUusE4EnaBI

Then escalate when she starts to giggle. Give her an emotional roller coaster.

Place her hand at your cock. Push her head at your cock. Pin both of her arms down on the bed while you're sucking her nipples. Slap her face with your cock. Force your cock in her mouth and gag her with your dingdong.

DOMINATE her.

LET YOUR COCK DO THE TALKING.

Btw, thou shall not say the Lord's name in vain. It offends me. I'm a very religious person.

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Haha, that song, made me laugh.

We spoke via facebook, I will just show you her replies, honestly, this is what she has said:

I chose not to talk about that part of it because you were literally so far in the wrong and you just don't see it. All I said was I don't want to have sex and you blew up, like you alway do. You tried 10 different ways to touch me like can I just give you a massage etc. every single time I say I don't want to have sex you find some way to get mad at me and blow up, making it even less likely we will. But you will never learn and that's just how it's going to be

I don't want to talk to you rn
You can apologize for being a forceful dick who expects his girlfriend to have sex with him whenever they are alone and then gets mad at her when she said she doesn't want to.
Or you can keep trying to convince me this is my fault
I would love to see how you spin that

It is a big deal because it has happened so many ducking times and you don't learn
You need to realize how serious this is

Then after me replying about the day, her parents patrolling, she said:

I saw the whole fucking day, I know that they were around but that's why I was back home, to spend time around them so that they have no excuse to say no you can't be around. I know they want to spend time with me they just don't plan anything and so it is up to me to make that effort. I can tell they are really trying to be supportive and accepting of our relationship but you have to realize neither of them had what we had at my age. They didn't bring their boyfriends or girlfriends to sleep over, they didn't have anything like that around their parents. I can tell my mom isn't super okay with it but deals with it instead of pushing me away and making me go behind their back. Same with my dad, but he is more okay with it. My mom will always and has always been weird with relationships, I have tried to be open with her, it doesn't work. I get that you felt like she wanted you to leave but when I asked my dad if you could stay he didn't even hesitate. He was totally fine with it. Obviously he didn't fill in my mom so that made it uncomfortable. When I left the room and you went back to say good night, my dad obviously felt like you were saying goodbye and got confused as he just said you could stay. There are things that no matter what I do, are still going to make you and me uncomfortable when around them, get used to it. In the bathroom when you tried to kiss me both times I was brushing my teeth or popping my spots, I wasn't mad at you for trying to kiss me I just couldn't at the time. And of course I told you to get your cold hands off of me i was warm and you can warm your hands differently. I can't believe you thought that was even worth bringing up. Yes your face hurt me when we were kissing and I told you that so that you knew not to rub your face against mine as you often do. You said you would be careful and that was fine, no problem. Me saying that is not being rude it's telling you something to be aware of so that you don't hurt me. I don't mind if you put in effort to try and have sex with me, that's fine. The problem is when you react to something not going your way. I simply said I didn't want to have sex and you tried several ways to Try and convince and coerce me to. Then for the next 10 minutes you talked about how rude I was to everyone and how I was with my mom and things that literally had nothing to do with having sex. You need to first start not freaking out when I say no, and then if you get upset, to not let that fuel your anger about other things. Learn to be quiet about it, and if it is still a problem when you have calmed down, then you can calmly bring it up, or forget about it cause it isn't a big deal.



She is fucking good, honestly, and this is what im fucking dealing with. By the way, im not some beta dude, I do joke around, cock slap her, slap her ass, im a joker and have always had girls after me but obviously tripped and fell over this one. What do you think about what she said?

Shes now saying she is 'uncomfortable' when she is naked around me.... she is making me sound like a predator... and that i 'need to fix it' and 'you will fix it'

Fuck, it kinda sucks when your own girlfriend says she is uncomfortable around you, although i think she is being fucking dramatic and i just wanted to try and have sex. Fuck sakes.