Why don't you just hide her from your "news feed" on facebook? That way you don't have to delete her, but you won't get those unwanted updates... Go to her profile and click on that right "flower" sign next to message. Choose "Report/Block..." then "Hide from News Feed"

Well, up until this point she hadn't posted anything that hit a nerve. But that's probably a good idea.

Ended up replying to her text. Just said "what's up?". I'm being very short and distant with my replies. She asked what I've been up to. I just replied "same old stuff, differentday. Been spending more time with my friends having fun". Then she turned the conversation to Halloweenand what my plans were. I diverted the cconversation by saying I hadn't figured out a costume yet. Basically.... she keeps asking questions and dragging the conversation on. I want to ask her whg she's messaging me right after spending the weekend with her ex. But I'm going to use the less is more tactic.

That's a good idea, IF you have the strength not to search her name. Curiosity eats away at me so I remove any possible method of contacting an ex until emotions have subsided.

Was in a very similar situation a while ago. Girl was really into me, missed my opportunity, realized how much I wanted her...it was to late. She went back to an ex, started posting pics on facebook, I was weak and couldn't stop myself from looking. I deleted her then didn't want her to know so I deleted my whole account. Your right in thinking its a bitch move. I went total AFC and now looking back and being over this girl I can't believe I let some girl have so much control over me. If you have to just temporary delete your account, you can always log back on and reactivate, but don't delete your whole account, its weak and by doing so you block an avenue for her or other women to get in contact with you. Just stop looking at her updates (hard sure, but not impossible) and soon enough you will be in a spot where it won't matter seeing her with satis.

This is where it ends, I'll bet. Went to see an ex in the hospital tonight. She and I talked about what was going on with this situation. inadvertently as I was showing her some pictures off Amanda's Facebook I happened to notice she changed her profilepic to include her and Matthew (the now not so ex). This flared my emotions again and with some persuasion from my ex who I was visiting, I wrote the following.

Me: It's really unfair to Matthew for you and I to talk or see each other anymore. I think you should be mindful of that. Not that I don't want to. It's just not right. I can't be your friend. Sorry.

Her: I tell him I still talk to you every now and then. You're on my mind a lot and I still care about you. I just wanted to say hi. But I will disappear completely. Goodbye.

I've just now noticed she deleted me from Facebook as well. I guess it's time to face the facts. It's over. No boomerang. No rekindling dull flames. I gotta move the fuck on.

Ouch Brantely...I feel it for you man. Tried to convince you to forget this chick but never thought it would end so badly. It's fucked up because you seem like you really did care about this girl, although I think too fast, and she went back to her ex and deleted you. Women can act caring and in love when things are good, but this girl ain't shit for how she went about things.

Edit: wait was this the ex she didn't sleep with for months before and things were bad with? She's nuts and pulled you into a head trip. Forget her.

Yeah same guy. She was engaged to marry him too.

Yeah, she's a trip. I'm sad yet relieved to be done with this mess. You're very on point. I do care about her a great deal. I've been married, loved other women. Non compared to the feelings I had for his girl. It's the shit songs and movies are made of... which is why I've stayed invested. But at some point you have to know when to fold a hand. I'm sure I'll recover soon enough. Still been dating and gaming other girls. I do find myself scrutinizing the hell out of them. I guess no one will be as perfect in my eyes till I get over this one.

Edited for: Weak sause, sandy vagina post. My emotions got the best of me.

I recommend total NC. Do it for you to get over her, I wouldn't be surprised if she calls you up again to screw with you some more.

If you forget the fact that he is bald, he is tall and facially no uglier than she is. She is an 8 at best, probably more like 7-7.5.

Maybe she can do better. But more importantly, so can you.

Move on.

Awesome quote.

I'm not saying I couldn't do better. But she's certainly better than a 8. To me anyway, she's one of the most beautiful women I've seen. I feel like pictures don't do her much justice.

Nevermind you are moving on now. Keep searching I promise you can find this level of connection/attraction again. After 31 years I thought I'd seen it all and I finally met a girl who was unreal compared to all the others blabla.. It's all bullshit tho, keep on looking and you will find an even better match.

Delete the picture man, it's not a very nice thing to do and the world is small. No point anyway..

If you go through the relationship section of this forum you will see so many stories like this; girls needing space, staying in "platonic" relations with exes and so on. The beginnings of the stories are different but the end is always the same.

Girls wont tell you things straight forward this is their way of soft-nexting - by dragging guys and giving you false hopes in one way or another. The solution is to go completely NC until you are over her, and this definitely happens with time.

A girl who keeps her options open like this is not as perfect as you say obviously. Concentrate on her bad sides and think of them until they replace the fake image of her you created

Awesome summary!