Cut teh crap .. no games .. just call her when you really have something important to say. She''s just being conservative trying to make you invest...
if you can stand and handle that shit you can invest..
if you have trouble accepting this, then only call her when you got something really important to say...

just realise that it isn't a big fucking deal .. those are just some retarded phone calls.. shit on the phone isn't even important - how you treat and interact with eachother face to face is 100 x more important. You don't have to game her...

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Thank you. The only concern I have is that during the last conversation we had, she brought up something about how "things dont need to be awkward" between us. I agreed, but in retrospect, that seems like the way I'd get stuck as just a friend.

just popping in to spam on lode's thread.

carry on.

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could be you missed a K-close opportunity...if you do not know what to do just do not contact her...she's just giving mixed signals.. coul very well be she just wants to be kissed.

what IOI did she gave you .. does she comply ? how does kino goes ? who leads the interactions ?

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+ 5 .. best advice ever heard ... someone needs to be rick rolled i guess

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Hi

I joined this forum not to Sarge but to become more attractive to my wife, I have become low value and to needy. Over the last few weeks I have contacted her less and tried to show my Alphaness. It is working ( a lot) but Im worried that I will alienate her at the same time.

How do you maintain the balance, how far to go with it????

BBS

Sorry, the last interaction we had was over text, I wasn't able to pick up on a lot. We talked again today, over text. She said that she misses me, and didn't think kissing on Friday was weird, so this is a start.

Usually she leads the interactions, I just follow with whatever she says, while keeping things interesting.When we danced, she was smiling at me in silence, and staring at my lips, and playing games like we did when we were in a relationship, such as brushing her nose against mine repeatedly. Back when we danced she was fine with kino, I was holding her around/below the hips, and she was grinding on me both while facing me, and away from me. When we kissed, she kissed me. I didn't want to cross a line, because I was sure she just wanted to be friends, but I definitely did want to kiss her.

Hi there,

I just wanted some advice. I cheated on my gf of 3 years and I feel that I've made the biggest mistake of my life! She hasn't caught me cheating but shes been hearing romours and I said yes its true. But the girl i cheated with is a complete bitch and i want my old gf back! The grass isnt always greener on the other side!

For the past month we've had zero contact. I feel the best way to approach this is to drive up and see her. We was in a long distance relationship by the way and we only saw each other at weekends. My life has been empty ever since!

Now I was thinking of making up a story because i doubt she would take me back if she knew i cheated on her. Now i know its kinda sick story but i feel that she could believe me and im also desperate to win her back!

I have a gay friend who she knows about but has never met and i would tell her that i was actually raped by this gay guy friend and that i was too ashamed to tell her the truth. And i used this cheating on her with another girl was just a smokescreen. What do u guys think? Do u think i could pull it off? I miss her so much and im desperate to have her back!

LOL. Nothing will get girl more attracted to you than telling her you had your shit pushed in.

lol i see ur point!

Legendish001

you need to lead . she's attracted and im not sure if you are in the friendzone.. You need to lead and express assertive male dominance by expressing your individuality.

most commom mistake guys make is not leading .. the girl is all over them talking and leading... they don't have to lead anymore because the girl is doing it. Woman do not want to lead - that is their drive and instinct. If you lead interactions you spark attraction really fast , however this does not mean you have to impress by constantly talking. It means you pull the girl to the dancefloor , it means you open up a conversation and it means you are asking the questions , you only answering questions you want to answer.

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lol i think you need to stop smoking crack...you cheated and you fucked up... shit happens just take responsibility for your actions.

lol getting fucked by a guy .. smokescreen.. sounds more like mustardgas to me

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Hello! Here's the situation: I have gf, been together 4 months, but shes feeling like its more physical relationship and she dosen't see friend in me. Any advice how to accomplish friend status too ?

Alright, thanks again. I was a little unsure at the time with physical interactions, because she was the one that broke up with me, and I was unsure where that left us. Apparently she isn't opposed to things like that though. I was generally letting her lead because I read to let her come to you after initiating no contact, but I suppose we are passed that point now. Is making her come to me a poor idea at this point? I know I can lead without coming off as needy or whatever, so it is an option.

you don't want to be her friend...

you want to be the guy who she fucks... she got dozens of friends and she doesn't fuck them...why don't girls fuck their friends ? because they are friends... I think she's thinking about emotional connection... WOMAN never tell you to be their friends - if they do they probably are thinking something but saying otherwise( when you are in a relationship of course ).

just express your emotions by being open .. ask her about her top 3 defining moments in life..tell her something about yours. it's just talking and sharing experiences.
if woman tell you you aren't their friend but they keep coming back to you for attention and/or sex ... that's a freaking compliment - it means you are doing well. it means you haven't landed in the friendzone during dating or early in the relationship.

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