Ice

listen .. your objective is not to get control over something

it's not about manipulating... i just helped you expressing yourself, always try to express yourself no matter what happens. do not conform... well what are you know ? her friend ? she is reacting way too much...nobody gives 2 messages in a row , she must really care.

she is giving you all power in the social alliance..

she just sounds like a extremely passive , shy girl...it's still hard to know if you are in the friendship zone or not. She still keeps the ''friend'' frame but i think she gives more about you then she thinks...

so you got 2 options .. she actually narrows it down for you... you either respond and become friends again or you just say nothing and pretend like nothing has happened and again trying to find out her real feelings. To be honest i think you should move on.... just freeze her out for a while, let her think she fucked up everything - because actually she did - you are friends but she cannot hang out with you ? i mean wtf ?

...just freeze everything right now .. be formal .. decide later, work on yourself and your inner game, game woman and get good with woman in general. You cannot get her without hanging out together - you need a date to convey your personality. You need to get game , logistics and emotions going. She will not give you the time or choice to do so...

if you have gamed her but she refuses to hang out with you you should move one, game other woman - you can always try again later.

put yourself above her...and don't be friends right now because something tells me you are too attached.

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100 %

what do your feeling say .. you sound confused... you wrote down she cheated.. somebody else said it but it's likely on your mind otherwise you wouldn't say it.
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what are you really confused about.. what is your top 3 ?

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LOL

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Lodewijkp

Thanks a lot for your feedback. I really appreciate it very much. Since the last two emails I haven't heard from her again, and I have NOT CONTACTED her as well. I will keep everything FORMAL and pretend like nothing has happened? But if she brings it up, then what should I say to her? Should I tell her don't worry about it and were cool or you suggest something else?

In what sense manipulative? Like sometimes I get the feeling that she does not make much time to meet, she says she is busy which may well be true since she has some exams coming up

this thread is so boring that i almost slept reading it. What the hell is going on here? Nthng new, usual talk. May be its because my level is already high or whateva. But it's pure boring. Nothing to learn here, no unique cases, no unique tips. Anyways, carry on
best of luck

Negativity a little much? With the amount of posts you have up I'd barely qualify you as "too high of a level"

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ok i would be honest here to tell you that after reading your post all that came to my mind is, lol. But i will give you what u asked for, eh? Ok
1st thing 1st, i am new here, not new in d community, u dnt know anything abt me, so who d hell are u to judge me and why am i going to care abt ur cmnts? Hmmm
a bit of negativity? Yeah, dats true dat got me disappointed to read such a long post but no new info found.
And again, lol

My sister said to her that the only reason i want hear living with me is because i can stick my dick in her. We do have sex everyday but sex is not the only reason that makes me want her around i really like her. I say this because last night i was accelerating and she told me to stop because she feels like the only reason we are together is because we have sex all the time i told her it was not then i put my arm around her and we feel asleep. My question is how do we keep things the same without letting my sisters comment keep coming up and getting in the way?

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Live and let live...

pardon me, i didnt understand. Is it a sex issue with your sister or you? Or between you and your sister?

Is it possible to attract an ex back because she broke up with you for becoming a doormat?

This just happened to me, I got laid off, she got really busy working 3 jobs and totally got the power in the relationship. She then broke up with me saying I don't stand up for myself and shes not attracted to me anymore.

My question, is it possible to get this attraction back?

I'm working on a month long plan, of going no contact for a month, completely rebuilding my confidence, then inviting her out to go shopping with me or something very casual.

ICEman yep just behave like nothing has happened... if she brings it up just don't answer it.

ask her .. why do you want me to answer that question ?

if she keeps complaining ( persistence) just tell her you never insulted her or you didn't call names, tell her to stop freaking out.

the question for you is : why does she care ?

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Elpibe like she doesn't want to hang out with you but she does hang out with friends.

she just use her exam as a excuse and that kind of stuff... She avoids you without being honest leaving you with doubts and questions.

she contradicts herself - that is what you should look for... manipulative behaviour often contradicts the persona.

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Shit test...little bit weird...does she feel emotional attachement ( connection ) or is she just brainwashed about what other people tell her ? ask her how she feels about it...im serious.. yes it can look very needy but you will get the answers you will need if you ask her.

ask her how she feels about you...
she probably will test you with questions like '' why do you ask blabla''
just reply .. because im curious...ask the question again.
people often don't want to express their emotions directly, ''try'''to make them ( with respect of course).

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TheGrimSweeper

it takes a huge amount of game, energy and time to get back your ex. finding a new and better girlfriend is easier - takes less energy , time and patience.

The reason why you shouldn't get involved is because she will shit test you crazy.. she wants to know if you have changed. AND you have to change her image about you - you cannot control someones perspective with the flip of your fingers.
She is still attracted .. but that doesn't mean she will sleep with you.

so the question : is it possible to get her back ?

finding a new girl would take like 2 % energy
getting back you ex would take like 92 % of your energy

you will waste time and energy into trying to get her back, why do you want her in the first place ? are you needy ? she dumped you for a reason...people often chase the wrong things .. things they want but in the end isn't good for them.

ask yourself this : if you improved your confidence why in earth do you want to get her back ? If you were really confident you be like '' fuck this chicks i find someone better''. You need to improve yourself for you .. not for someone else.

don't mess up your life by chasing things you don't need

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