I have been out on travel this week out to the East Coast so I haven't been as busy on the forums as I would have liked...OK...my thoughts...
This may have been covered but I'll chime in as I didn't read all three pages, just what your scenario is.

If she is a good friend, are you willing to lose her over this other girl. It's a risk you need to consider...only you know how close of a friend she is.

But, consider the upside...you guys do hit if off, it could be grand.

Not good with relationships...well, from how I see it, there is someone out there for everyone...problem is, not everyone is out willing to look. I.e... Me and this girl just can't seem to get it right...I tell you...Bro...she's cracked and not worth it...you end up meeting her and find you share deep commonalities that only you two understand...and she goes on to tell you that she has had such a hard time meeting the right person...and then you came along....oh, and her last BF Cedius was such a douche...LOL...I personally wouldn't buy into the relationship thing...TOO MUCH...yes, she may have trouble with them, she may not be good with them...it's hard to say unless you enter in to one with her...that's the only TRUE way you will know, the chemistry you two have will determine that...Not everyone is meant for everyone.

OK...so you have been asking...what would we do...well, I'll tell you as I have told most here...it's your call...what do YOU really want...and be honest with yourself, you don't have to tell us...you only live once...but remember, you only die once too...meaning, if this doesn't work, your friendship may go south with it.

Honestly, if this girl was fun, outgoing and just plain down to earth and cool to hang with...then why would I not want to spend more time with her...get to know her on a more deeper level and then maybe just get into the relationship.

Use this time to screen her good, look for the qualities that you seek in a woman, if they are there...then why hold back.

Just consider the friendship first or perhaps if you value it...talk to your good friend first and see what she may think but take it with a BIG grain of salt....right now she may say...it's no biggie but once it comes down to crunch time...that's when you'll know.

Good luck and keep us posted.

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Thanks Cedius. Good post again.

Yesterday there was a big update, posted on the third page, so if you get time check it if you haven't. She's showed immaturity, and basically laughed at me, and I've learnt not to take any crap from a female, because I can get others, and I know my qualities (sure I may seem big headed but it's true!)

I'm not contacting her any more. So have a look if you wish, see what you think.

I'll keep the post updated if she contacts, but again, I am not contacting her.

Thanks!

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I should have read the replies first but even though we feel we are good with what we know...it's always great to get others opinions...cool deal.

That post by "L" was good, I would love to hear more of what he has to say!
Non-sense, that is NOT big headed...That's being true to yourself and I commend you for not compromising your standards and expectations just to meet hers! Like the Chinese say...Fook Dat!

Well, you are on the right track but you don't need me to point out the obvious...guess it's back to the drawing board but hell, you have quite the palette of colors to work with!

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Correct Cedius, back to the drawing board. I have learnt from this, and as you said, I'm not settling for someone who's unappreciative if support, laughs at you for it etc. She can settle for a piece of crap haha.

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ack, that sucks,bro. I was really rooting for you with that one. Why do so many women have to be assholes?

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Thanks bro, shit happens.

I felt like calling her this week, generally to see how things are, but I refuse too, I saw she laughed at me, I'm nobody's fool, especially some girl I was just dating. My only regret is I never pushed harder to fuck her, I was respectful because of our mutual friend.

If she gets in touch whenever, I'll make it hard for her, make her feel bad, make things up to me, then be nice, and fuck her and not take it serious at all. When a girl plays games or plays the bitch card, you play the bastard card back, it's harder .

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Mate the whole BBM thing was just a way to feed her ego, I'd be screwing if some chick did that across me...i'd deffo call her out on it though, say yeah so you were keen, you thought there may have been something more there, but you were wrong and its fine - you should just be friends as she probably couldnt handle someone like you anyways...If you can fuck any of her friends, do it!

Haha ver true. Was for her Ego and trying to gain social proof, I coul imagine her saying if someone asked what she meant with the status" Oh this guy always asks how I am, he's to keen" Yeah alrite babe, you keep thinking that lol.

I'll see her around and I'll be approaching in front of her eyes just for the LOL'S.

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I'm only half serious here but I love these emotional girls. They are so easy and usually very eager to please. Def not for LTR, but I don't have time for that right now anyhow.

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Do you mean you play them your way Jits?

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My philosophy; if your gut is telling you there are some cruel intentions there, there likely are.

For example, my AOL lifestream is connected to all of my social networking accounts. I had not heard a peep from the ex-girl on there the 2 weeks I was no on the instant messenger. I sign on today, she sees me, contacts me asking for something back in a taunting way, and immediately puts up a status saying "Baby

People work in mysterious ways huh?

She's thinking, maybe regrets things.

I briefly spoke to the girl this thread was about last week. She said she has so much going on at the moment, TBH, I'm glad, I've gone out with enough girls with problematic lives. I need to think about myself, and her knowing a good friend of mine I can't just lay her and run off, for moral's sake, there's so many women out there so onwards and upwards.

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Yep, I think they are really easy and generally down for a good fuck. Daddy issues make for fantastic one night stands.

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Haha love the spirit Jits!

Me, the girl in question, 2 other friends and our mutual friend are meant to all go out next saturday, this will be interesting! lol

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I'm not saying this to be a troll , but I think this whole thread belongs in an issue of "tiger beat" or something.

this is unhealthy stuff even though it probably feels good. I know because I have experienced this kind of unhealthy stuff, had enough pain, and have been learning how to choose the better path.

Here is the bottom line.......you are not even dating her yet.

hanging out, talking, cool beans, but no sex at all in over 2 months ?

Meanwhile she is dishing all her emotions all over you, telling you of relationship problems......not good. You should be able to figure out where I am going.

You don't have a romantic sexual relationship.

What is worse, you are starting to obsess about her. Call it a crush, oneitis, whatever, it is unhealthy.