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PostPosted: Fri Mar 11, 2016 3:10 am 
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All of this happened cuz she made mistake. In order to fix her ego she will come for validation. That is my theory.

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 11, 2016 8:35 am 
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All of this happened cuz she made mistake. In order to fix her ego she will come for validation. That is my theory.
Evolution is also a Theory.

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 11, 2016 8:52 am 
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Dice master... I'm genuinely curious... Have any of your tactics worked for you? What did you do exactly and how did it work? I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt that you're at least speaking from experience and not just theories.


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 11, 2016 10:48 am 
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Ok Neo, Long Story Short,

I was at high school 10 years ago. I ve met a lot of women around me, i can say i m talented about to picking up girls, ad sadly i am not that good to keeping them.

Opening time of highschool i sat second desk which is infront of the table. It was a nice rocker chick, that time we had 2 options as to ne rocker and rapper. I was the rocker one so she was. After long chatting we ve decided to meet up. That time i had a gf which was ok. After another oppurtunities i kept the girls around me. I invited one of these chick to meet with rocker girl. So we finally meet up, the group was a little crowded. I flirted everyone of these which annoyed my girl who i came with. Allday i kept her kiss close but did not kiss and wantes to show that i ve many options. Out of.a sudden a flashed. She was HB9. She impressed ne from head to toe. I get her number after kick ass convos. At the and of the day i met much people and took many numbers.

2 days after that meeting day. I wanted to break up with my gf cuz many opputtunities appearedd. I gave a female friend of my mine a duty to say this chick that is over. After mid pause the rocker chick came to me and said that this HB9 girl wanna date with me. I felt fucking good and said id so invite her after school we can meet. She came in 5 min i get k close. There was a fucking perfection between us. A week after i started to act AFCand said to her thati love her. She just look and said nothing. WTF. Whatever a period of time we spent many hours. One day after i made appointment with her and the group and started to wait for their arrival. they delayed like 2 hours. I was fucking angry about it but i acted alpha and said nothing. She came to me with full of ignorance.Out of blue she was acting bitch.But i.understood shit is coming. We went a bar and she came yo me and said i wanna break up with you. I was so surprised but kept the frame and said ok. After break up, i stayed a couple of more hours to show that i ve balls and i am not vulnerable. So i left the place with the effect of alcohol i was emotionla as pussy and started to cry in public. WTF. But my ego said that she will come soon. 2 days adter like i felt she came to our schoolend. I.ignored her and gone away. She caught me at the road and apologised for her actions. I was deep in love with her and tought that she understood her mistake and not gonna repeat again. So o forgive her thing went well a while. One day our mutual friend came to me and tell the background story of our break up.

She dated with me for making to another guy jelaous. That break up day, she was first with him and he said that they could be couple but she needed to wn stuff between us. Seemwd like her tactic worked well. But the thing she could not calculated after taht days kisses in bar and fucking at home he dismissed her like a slut. After i learned this stuff time has come for GAME.

I invited her for meeting, she came, said i forgot my wallet at home and offered to pick up which she accepted. We came home for the first time i fucked her rogue and ask the background story, as i expexted she lied, i said i know how slut you are and told the story. She accepted and apologised and beg for my forgiveness. I said no and she ran away from home. I gone to NC and ignored her, she came to me for apologising maybe more then 10 times. But i did not accepted.

That was the first time, that i used this technic. So it prettt worked.

you know what i ve learned from this phenomenon, i should not trust fully to women and blind love is fucked up thing. U guys d say prob. without trust u cant have healty relatiinship. Yes u r right, therefore i improved myself to detect red flags and ability to measure quality of the women also.

Thanks for long read hope it was helpfull. U r welcomed for questions.

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 11, 2016 2:06 pm 
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So you quit school in grade 9?

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So you quit school in grade 9?
No of course, that happened to me 10th grade. I ve gratuated from Uni man.

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So you quit school in grade 9?
No of course, that happened to me 10th grade. I ve gratuated from Uni man.
Grammar. Dice,

Grammar is important! Capitalization is the difference between helping your Uncle Jack off a horse and helping your Uncle jack off a horse.

No hate, sometime you are a difficult read Bro.

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 12, 2016 1:39 am 
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Ok Neo, Long Story Short,

I was at high school 10 years ago. I ve met a lot of women around me, i can say i m talented about to picking up girls, ad sadly i am not that good to keeping them.

Opening time of highschool i sat second desk which is infront of the table. It was a nice rocker chick, that time we had 2 options as to ne rocker and rapper. I was the rocker one so she was. After long chatting we ve decided to meet up. That time i had a gf which was ok. After another oppurtunities i kept the girls around me. I invited one of these chick to meet with rocker girl. So we finally meet up, the group was a little crowded. I flirted everyone of these which annoyed my girl who i came with. Allday i kept her kiss close but did not kiss and wantes to show that i ve many options. Out of.a sudden a flashed. She was HB9. She impressed ne from head to toe. I get her number after kick ass convos. At the and of the day i met much people and took many numbers.

2 days after that meeting day. I wanted to break up with my gf cuz many opputtunities appearedd. I gave a female friend of my mine a duty to say this chick that is over. After mid pause the rocker chick came to me and said that this HB9 girl wanna date with me. I felt fucking good and said id so invite her after school we can meet. She came in 5 min i get k close. There was a fucking perfection between us. A week after i started to act AFCand said to her thati love her. She just look and said nothing. WTF. Whatever a period of time we spent many hours. One day after i made appointment with her and the group and started to wait for their arrival. they delayed like 2 hours. I was fucking angry about it but i acted alpha and said nothing. She came to me with full of ignorance.Out of blue she was acting bitch.But i.understood shit is coming. We went a bar and she came yo me and said i wanna break up with you. I was so surprised but kept the frame and said ok. After break up, i stayed a couple of more hours to show that i ve balls and i am not vulnerable. So i left the place with the effect of alcohol i was emotionla as pussy and started to cry in public. WTF. But my ego said that she will come soon. 2 days adter like i felt she came to our schoolend. I.ignored her and gone away. She caught me at the road and apologised for her actions. I was deep in love with her and tought that she understood her mistake and not gonna repeat again. So o forgive her thing went well a while. One day our mutual friend came to me and tell the background story of our break up.

She dated with me for making to another guy jelaous. That break up day, she was first with him and he said that they could be couple but she needed to wn stuff between us. Seemwd like her tactic worked well. But the thing she could not calculated after taht days kisses in bar and fucking at home he dismissed her like a slut. After i learned this stuff time has come for GAME.

I invited her for meeting, she came, said i forgot my wallet at home and offered to pick up which she accepted. We came home for the first time i fucked her rogue and ask the background story, as i expexted she lied, i said i know how slut you are and told the story. She accepted and apologised and beg for my forgiveness. I said no and she ran away from home. I gone to NC and ignored her, she came to me for apologising maybe more then 10 times. But i did not accepted.

That was the first time, that i used this technic. So it prettt worked.

you know what i ve learned from this phenomenon, i should not trust fully to women and blind love is fucked up thing. U guys d say prob. without trust u cant have healty relatiinship. Yes u r right, therefore i improved myself to detect red flags and ability to measure quality of the women also.

Thanks for long read hope it was helpfull. U r welcomed for questions.
Please stop hijacking posts.


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 12, 2016 2:06 pm 
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So you quit school in grade 9?
No of course, that happened to me 10th grade. I ve gratuated from Uni man.
Grammar. Dice,



Grammar is important! Capitalization is the difference between helping your Uncle Jack off a horse and helping your Uncle jack off a horse.

No hate, sometime you are a difficult read Bro.
Sorry about it, you are right.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 14, 2016 11:14 am 
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Short of it is we have broken up.

But on Saturday we went out. Cinema. She was touching me like normal. We went to her new place and then we spoke and she said she doesn't know if she wants to be in a relationship right now.

I reverted to Pete Method and stayed calm. We then played Xbox together and then we slept together pretty heated and good. When it got late we went to bed together. Like normal times. Intimacy all there.

We woke up and had sex again and I had to work. I asked her if she was happier this way and she said a simple yes just like Pete method and I said if you love something I have to be able to let it go. She made breakfast before that and dinner the night before at hers too so she was doing everything normally. By speaking about all of this it seemed to have dragged it out of her.

She isn't from here and has in her adult life never experienced being single at any time since 16 to 26 years old.

She texted me yesterday asking if I was okay and the another right after saying IM NOT BEJNG PATRONIZING, I just care about you. I haven't replied. I'm on freeze out right now. She texted me asking for her stuff like ID and stuff. She just now SPAM me asking same question. I don't wanna reply.

Should I just drop stuff to her place tonight and maintain my no communication?


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 14, 2016 11:15 am 
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The worst things is that there is no valid reason.

She now has her own space and I'm always relaxed and ask for nothing from her. What about smoke screen excuses and so on? We have so much we do together that it makes little sense to want to give a male up like this. She knows I'm desirable.

What do you guys suggest? Pete method following? She will never have been subjected to a freeze out.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 14, 2016 4:26 pm 
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I'm starting to suspect that she has been sending break up signals before she told you that she was going to move out but you refused to accept them as well.

She's not giving you valid reasons because she is simply not emotionally connected to you and she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. This is why she is saying she doesn't know if she wants to be in a relationship instead of something you can give a counter argument.

OP, just let her go and try to move on. The longer you try to hold on to someone that isn't there, the longer it's going to take you to get over it. There is going to be a day you find out that she is seeing someone else while you are trying to get her back by using some sort of method and it will destroy your ego.

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Did you meet this girl right after she got out of a relationship or during one?


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 14, 2016 5:19 pm 
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Yeah. Break up signals were there before.
- messages were less emotional
- less fighting towards end
- less asking me about my day

But his happened in an acute period rather than chronically over the time. Very fast fizzle.

Neo. She was with a guy who was abusive and druggie from 16-17 years of age
From 18-24 until last March 2015 she was with someone for 16 years.
We stared to speak mid April and date.

So she hasn't ever had time to be on her own. My friend is also a really level headed PUA and he said that she hasn't ever been single and had her own life and not to say she is sleeping around but she hasn't had that freedom. Her future is uncertain and includes even which country she wants to live in also.


Also thanks to you guys for the support. It means a lot even though I have never met you guys.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 14, 2016 6:18 pm 
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Saturday night we broke up:
Sunday night I left her place without looking back after we had breakfast

She now keeps calling me a lot and I have ignored all texts and calls.

The only thing im unsure about is whether cutting contact is the best option or whether I should be on the salvage as soon as possible but there were enough signs to signal relationship ending. These out of the 38 are:

- You are seeing each other less
- She prefers to live with her girl friend
- She cancels dates or has only a few hours (she did first time last week ever)
- She doesn’t like public displays of affection anymore
- She doesn’t initiate touching like she did before
- Fewer calls and texts from her
- She replies short and emotionless without xs at the end of texts now
- She says she will text later and doesn't
- She asks fewer questions about what’s going on in your life
- She stops complimenting you or laughing at your silly jokes
- She highlights that you got different long-term expectations
- She locks her phone and doesn’t want you to see something
- She changed passwords to phone also as we knew each others
- She passed up a family gathering also for mothers day


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