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yes, this girls means a lot to me, and i am not in love (thank god). i could forgive her, but she has to work for it (otherwise she would not appreciate me). now she knows that i can dump her anytime she fucks up.
the revange thing... c'mon i woulndt waste my time on such things. and i am considerng getting back with her if she really works for it (meaning she wants it). otherwise, moving on.
gtdave, i see your point, you are thinking exactly like i do? i don't know if its good or bad though.
Rough Operator, can you be more exact on what you suggest i should do?
apocalyptica, i really dont know weather i am a rebound bf or not. could be. i would have to wait and see her reactions.
she has a really thight inner game.
she never said "i love you", and this text message...it was only "loved ya" in a text message.
besides there was this chat convo with her best friend where she said that i may not be the perfect for her, but she doesnt know yet.
just now she sent me a long email, some quotes:
"Hi my [my nickname]
I am not trying to change smng or “turn back”, yesterday was kind of telling a lot I guess for both of us, very sad.
“my slight lie to you” about meeting my ex…I could not tell you just because I didn’t meet you since than. Sorry!
why you don’t have pictures with me on FB? Why you didn’t ask me to change status as in relationships with you?
And if you have an idea that I still keep alive relationships with Ex, that just put fact in front of you; when possibly I could have time for this if I spent so much time of mine with you, all friends were secondary and very rarely I was prioritizing them instead of you. I spend all weekend in bed next to you being like in dream because of good feeling..[it is true BTW]
as conclusion want to let you know that I was really happy to know you, you are first person ever with whom I felt so free and myself…really, like in free flight, you made real me to become alive again after long time when my personality was “pushed down” with tries to change me. I saw in you so many positives and meaning full lines(for me) collected in one person, simply saw myself in you. I am really grateful I met you on the way of my life line, now I know that there exists somebody who is like “I was searching for long”, sadly destiny planned different. But I want to say thank you for all I learned from you, for all what made me better because of sharing 70% of my time with you in last ½ year. I got really deep feelings for you and feel like very much belonging to you, hope it will go away soon.
Please be more patient or talk to people before act. It will help to solve many cases before it is too late.
kisses to my [my nickname]."
WTF now?? What do I do now? Does she really want to forget me? Does she really want to get over me? Or is she just playing? What do I do now???
Mate she probably took a hour or 2 to think of what to write, its obvious that the girl likes you, but as i said on a previous comment, He has been in her life for 4 years, they might have had to meet to give things back to one another, or just to chat.
If you dont trust her 100% fuck her off, i wouldnt be with a girl if i didnt trust them BUT, if you claim you are not in love with her... 'forgive her' And just bang the shit outta her
CHAT
