So... The thing with dinner? Yeah, she said she was tired...

I'm one week away from college vacation. I will ignore every text or call she sends me... The moment I set foot on my hometown, I will either go talk to her directly or if she doesn't want to meet, I'll just text "hey, I think we should meet other people. Your behaviour has not been very good towards me.". And that's it.

I feel more compelled than ever to do this because 1) I have this girl here in college who I can fuck whenever I feel like it and 2) I've been talking to this other girl in my hometown, and I intend to game the fuck out of her lol

So yeah, thanks for all the advice, I guessed I just needed momentum to act!

Cheers

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"What we're doing is so wrong, and what you're wearing is so right (it's so tight!). But I've never felt better, so I'm going out to get her and I don't care what set of wheels I steal to get there."

That's a good decision. Good luck and have fun!

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

I think its important you do the breaking up...

It still sounds like you are waiting for her to get the final say then leave you. By all means confront her first. But I know for a fact, it feels shit when they get to say it instead. Somehow you will feel like you got dumped.

If you do it, then she will be the one to maybe wake up to herself and regret it one day and ask for you back. Because it shows you didnt stand for it.

Im no psychology master but this happened to me once. And even though I wanted it to end for months, I didnt have the balls to do it, so she did the breaking up. Then it felt bad for me afterwards....... It was ages ago but I still remember it.

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I'ma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly, and all those who look down on me I'm tearin down your balcony, no if ands or buts, don't try to ask him why or how can he

Lol you're right, it works. Dude, snap out of it! This is what you should say "One of the reasons I got into this relationship with you is because you were mature and didn't play stupid games, but you proved me wrong over and over again, I value my time and so I'm calling this relationship off right now" I promise you, she'll come back kissing your ass right away if you aren't too far deep yet but if she doesn't right away, she eventually will and when does, don't give in too quick

You should read "Train Your Girlfriend" by Matt Huston

PUA_Paris, great idea, would that work better face-to-face or just text her that?

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"What we're doing is so wrong, and what you're wearing is so right (it's so tight!). But I've never felt better, so I'm going out to get her and I don't care what set of wheels I steal to get there."

I honestly don't know

Texting:
-she'll have time to think about it, she'll read the text over and over again and realize how much she's fucked up etc.

In person:
-You can read her body language, her reaction, and everything else. You'll come off more alpha-like etc.

Get mentally ready for it before doing it in person though so you don't get nervous and fuck up on your part of body language

I think I'm going with text, later today... I was just wondering if it won't be kinda weird to text her that, out of the blue?

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"What we're doing is so wrong, and what you're wearing is so right (it's so tight!). But I've never felt better, so I'm going out to get her and I don't care what set of wheels I steal to get there."

It's not really out of the blue, I mean she's been acting like you're not together for weeks now. Don't worry about it, the text PUA Paris outlined is perfect. You can add in the text that for the past few weeks she has proved you wrong, so she knows it's not out of the blue for you, you've given it some thought. Keep us posted!

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

In my opinion your relationship is done. If this was recoverable issue this behaviour would have lasted a few days only. I am guessing she is to scared to break up with you and is hoping you get the "Hint".

I know you want this to work out and it does suck but try not to dwell on her. At some point she lost attraction for you, try to figure out when and why this happened and learn from it.

She answered: "Are you sick? End with what?"

( I texted " I'm ending this right now", and hoped for her to get the hint)

Is this a shit test, or should i just text back "Us."?

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"What we're doing is so wrong, and what you're wearing is so right (it's so tight!). But I've never felt better, so I'm going out to get her and I don't care what set of wheels I steal to get there."

This is not a shit test.

For her, this relantioship is over long time. but she doesnt want to be the one to break up and be the bad person.

This a girl who is beyond immature and is toying with you. and she is loving the attention she is receiving.

My little piece of advice, dont respond. Cut contact now. Dont give her the satisfaction. the best thing you can do to a girl like that is ignore, like she didnt had any efect over you, like she is nothing, girls hate feeling this.

Meu essa miuda está a brincar contigo, caga nela. Ignora a que nem para amiga ela serve.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

i differ from the rest.

i think a proposal is in order.

go select a ring.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Wait, that's all you said?

Hey, that's about it yeah =D. I was trying to connect on a portuguese level x).

And ThyMan, don't ever end a relationship with a text, seriously. Unless you guys live far away from each other (and I still think a phone call is better) there's no excuse to ever end it with a text.

She needs to realize it's over, and so do you. Texting gives it a sense of unreality.

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A bullet shaped hole where the answers should be.

No, I texted your whole text, but in this part I didn't repeat "relationship".

Whatever, it's over, don't even care having her back. She has been a little disrespectful bitch, so, no regrets.

Cheers

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"What we're doing is so wrong, and what you're wearing is so right (it's so tight!). But I've never felt better, so I'm going out to get her and I don't care what set of wheels I steal to get there."