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It's important for readers to take note of certain red flags in these posts.
Notice how Jack and Void talk more about my women, than theirs.
Isn't it weird that my advice is peppered with specific personal anecdotes about my girlfriend (and other women I sleep with), while they never bring up their women....ever?
Very strange. You'd think, even by accident , by living a life with women in it, that their advice/posts would contain such anecdotes. Heck, a man would be happy to share his experience. Instead, what you get is non-specific copy and paste about "the place it comes from" and "speak your needs". Over and over.
I'm proud of my girlfriend, and proud of my social success. I live it, and therefore, by nature, it comes out in my posts.
"Anecdotes" you mean facts.
Neo, our resident forum custodian I am sure can dig up the evidence.
You're nothing more than a shyster out to make a quick buck.
Why would I talk about my woman on here?
Lol, well as custodian....here are a few quotes from Jack and N2 on women in their lives:
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For example, I grew a goatee a few years back and I loved how it looked on me. All of a sudden I noticed women staring at me everywhere I went. In my mind it was the goatee. This girl that I dated for a few weeks, who approached me, eventually told me that I'd look better without it. But I liked it and it gave me a confidence boost, like you liked your watch and it gave you a boost as well.
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All good you're into black guys. Judgment free zone here homie.
The black chicks kinda 2/10 to me. I've dated several, one of which I was with for over 6 years, a complete dime piece.
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I dated someone like this for 3 years and it was traumatizing, to say the least. I would often exit the relationship for her only to return (and me to allow her back in). That was our cycle. I wanted more, and sought a stronger connection, but every time I did she'd pull away, often diminishing me, using shame as a tool, and any other way she could keep me at a distance including going radio silent for days on end (brutal).
I know you like this girl but is it worth your health and wellbeing?
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I'm 40, and started seeing a 25 y.o.. I've dated many younger women none of them having any issue whatsoever, in fact most seeming to have a preference for older males, not surprisingly. It's often them who have concerns that I'll have an issue with them being as young as they are.
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I suppose it could be like that in small towns. Where I live and the cities I've visited, female bartenders are a dime a dozen. The ones that I've dated get pursued a lot by men, but the way I approach them is not any different than any other woman.
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Several of the women I've dated have (by no fault of their own). I've yet to have one who withheld where she'd lived 1 month in.
Seriously give your head a shake.
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Pretty much every single one of my LTRs (I've had 6 spanning a year all the way up to 7) have been from cold approaches. I've never dated anyone from work, or to my recollection university even. I kinda like a woman who has a few core commonalities but beyond that a lot of different interests to help me broaden my own experiences.
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Sounds like my ex. I am still recovering from it 4+ months later...
The best parts were where she threatened my female friend to NOT invite me over in the evening again, months after we'd broken up, the contacting the police to tell them i was harassing her, listing herself on a sugar daddy dating site (guess a whore is a whore), and her making her own t-shirts with statements on them directed at me that she'd wear in the gym we both trained at.
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Gym chicks are easy to game. My ex I found at my gym just be careful as if she's a psycho you may have to leave gyms as I had to do.
Just do to stare at them, fly under the radar ask to work in and idle chat w them as they're used to guys trying to pick them up in the gym. Be humble but also understand you're not gonna escalate fast it may take a few encounters for her to be fully comfortable where u guys then set up some workouts together and take it from there. I've trained w so many hotties I had a rep at my gym, dated a few and serious rel w one but I'm also stupid jacked and usually take the mentor role helping.
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It's funny how guys think I'm screwing every girl I train with. I ve worked out with maybe 7 or more hotties from my gym within the past year. I come off to them as disarming, I dont stare at their ass and tits (at least obviously) like most guys do, and more often then not they want to workout - hell I had this young one tell me she wanted to take me to her place and f*ck the sh*t outta me. I find gym chicks very easy to approach as anything with practice, just don't be a creepo about it and you'll find most of them drop their guard pretty quick. Know when to book too (not hang around too much if she seems more interested in working out).
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And I think your goal is to help us exude sex appeal through an expression of body language. Women read body language like it was their first language, so little things can inadvertently cause DLV. For instance when I first started the walking test, I realized that when I approached people I would inadvertently touch my face. Women view that as a dishonest action subconsciously, and they would have been correct because I wasn't truly confident in the walk. Your body language can make you or break you.
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Not that I want to go back and forth with you because I don't. When I said she approached me, means that I didn't do the approaching. Therefore she initiated the contact in order for us to get close. So right now the only advice I could give is wait for them to contact you.
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However, I do know how women act. I've been the guy that a girl will talk negatively behind my back but at the same time she wants to introduce me to her parents. I've been the guy that a girl would say negative things about one of my friends and expressing their disinterest in him and then they later would be in long term relationships with them. That's why I believe that the rule of thumb should be is go with their actions and not words.
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To say that a woman will hit you up later because you did this is reaching. I've been flaked on, never reached out to the girl afterwards and have been hit up later. I can easily say that women love it when a man doesn't chase her and causes her to chase instead. Or I can say that a woman will see that I don't play games and looks at me as being more attractive than the other guys out there.
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I have women that try immature games with me all of the time. I don't give them the time of day once it becomes apparent. I even tell them that I don't play games afterwards and experience has taught me that they conform.
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I tell a girl that I don't play games because it's the truth. I don't have time for them. There's plenty of other girls that are just as hot or hotter that won't play games.
I'll stop there. Each one a different thread and from a simple search.
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