I like that idea a lot. I have done similar things, but not quite to that extent. Like I stated in the fist post, I'm starting to think she expects me to go down on her so the other night when she came over I laid in bed in a really good relaxed mood and made no moves at all. It drove her crazy and she came close and we started making out. I put my hand on her pussy over her panties and just held it there for a bit until she ripped my dick out of my pants and shoved it inside her. I wanted a bit more foreplay, but it was really good for her, she came a couple times while riding me. I like Maria's idea of the sensuality involved in the act, but am not getting flavored condoms and condiments out of the fridge for a blowie.

Listen up you little cunt. Forcing any woman to do what YOU WANT is sexual assault. Your whole comment is ME ME ME ME ME. I WANT I WANT I WANT. She doesn't like you to cum in her mouth so show her some fucking respect you jumped up fucking little jerk. If you have so much confidence then leave her. You sound like a rapey creep and I hate to break it to you but she's not that into you. It seems to me she's having sex with you because you are bullying her into it. You have demeaned her and made her feel worthless so well done. Some of the comments on here are clearly from porn addicted losers. No wonder you have so many problems in your sex lives. She better do this, that or the other to me otherwise she won't be my girlfriend. Christ your egos are just as pathetic as you dumb morons are. Get a clue ffs.

Spy, do you spit or swallow?

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Well, some girls want guys to cum on their tummy. Some want the man seed on their breasts. Several on the face. A lot inside the pussy. A few prefer dudes to cum inside a condom.

If a girl is grabbing your cock, pinching your ass, rubbing your feet with her feet or rubbing your chest with her hand, then that isn't bullying at all. She wants that hard, throbbing cock inside her at the right time when she feels warm and wet enough.

The OP just needs to train her girlfriend to like swallowing cum in her mouth. Women have what's called erotic plasticity which can be achieved with careful conditioning.

Just be open minded about this. Some girls get off while washing the laundry just with the vibration of the machine. Certainly, the washing machine is not bullying girls into orgasms. It's the same thing. When a dude is making out with a girl and gets to the point of dry humping her while she's in her underwear, that's not exactly bullying when a girl forces us men to put the damn cock in their pussy even when we're not yet ready.

Women are not objects that don't have feelings and libido. Women are human too. When they start to feel that hard cock rubbing on their clits, the most human female reaction is to grab the dick and greedily insert the cock in their vaginas even when men are not yet ready.

Stop treating women like objects Digital_Spy. Treat women as human beings and you'll feel better instead of bitter.

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I stopped reading at this point. Surely this is against the forum's policy on flaming.

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There isn't a single post of Digital_Spy that's not against the forum's policies.

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Digital_Spy promotes misogynistic point of views. She treats women as objects under the guise of bashing men who treat women as objects. She wants to deny women the emotional and physical pleasures that learned and skilled men can give.

She's promoting the idea that women are robots that have insensitive clitorises and vaginas and have no carnal desires at all like seeing their men spurt loads of semen on their faces with orgasmic pleasure.

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i've been dealing with this exact issue from a woman i've been sleeping with a couple months who refused to give me head whatsoever even though i went down on her plenty of times and have been making her cum regularly.

at first i was pissed about the lack of reciprocation but did not show it, and gradually i inferred that she was just very self-conscious about her ability to give oral. i'm guessing other guys have said she's bad at it and it makes her supremely uncomfortable.

the way i played it was always to give her compliments on every other aspect of our sexual interaction, to praise her handjobs, to go down on her and say how much it turns me on to see her cum, to say how good she felt when i was inside of her, to tell her i just want us to have lots of fun and be really comfortable when we have sex, etc. just be totally fun and positive about it and not make her self-conscious whatsoever.

then when kissing her on the lips and groping her and making her really horny i said "damn you're such a good kisser, would love to feel those lips somewhere else..." and smiled playfully. she playfully responded "oh really? where?" and i just bantered with her back and forth sexually but playfully and letting her know how good she would be and how good it would feel. then she eagerly went down on me and i praised the hell out of her every move and guided her on the right techniques without saying anything but how good it felt and how good she was at it.

so if it's a hygiene issue it's easy to fix and if it's a low confidence issue that's how you do it.

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he goes down on her all the time but she won't reciprocate? fuck you. dude is here saying he wants her to feel more into it and enjoy it, forcing and being rapey would be the exact opposite.

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dont feed the troll please

Make her pussy wet instead. Seems to be working on her in my last 3 replies or so to her posts.

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Lol, it feeds on cock.

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Yep. Girls have very vivid imaginations. So if you layout the sex clear and good, they stay silent which basically means their pussies are getting wet. Face-to-face, they'll be gulping their saliva down their throats and then preen their dress to expose a lot more skin by the neck area.

Digital_Spy is like any other female. So bros, just make the troll's pussy wet and everything will be fine.

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knew i majored in creative writing for a reason... i should get paid for some of the sextual odysseys i take girls on

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-Ain't no one got time for that!

I read that once then read it the second time and died laughing. Anyway.

I have a new approach to this: Rather than being focused on her or my orgasm and where it goes, remain completely relaxed during the sex and be in the moment with her entirely and just let whatever happens happen. Yea it would be nice to Peter North her face or mouth (porn reference for digi there ), but instead focus on making the sex last as long as possible in a slow and relaxed way rather than both of us screwing 100 miles per hour and me going down on her for 15 minutes in attempt to reach climax. She always comes first, because that's what I want and it turns me on when instead I should look into some Tantric approach to the sex that makes it last longer and dissolves the obsession of jizz logistics and care of who comes forth, when, where, etc.

I don't know if that makes sense, it's the only way I could explain it. Any thoughts on that, or is the jury out?