As first , welcome to the forums!

I am also from the Netherlands!

It's hard to give advise to this, because I don't know the specific situation of your relationship, if you both are in love with each other, all you need is to not give a fuck, she is there, and what happens there happens there, you can't make changes to that. Accept that, and if she is good gf material she won't do shit with any of those guys there, if she does, it's over, people who cheat are low, not worth you.


About the texts, if she's saying she is with 5 guys in a hot-tub , so what?

I always react really positive to those kind of texts ,
Like her saying ; "Hanging out with 3 surfer dudes in a hot-tub"
Even though, you dislike this , just act like it's completely awesome.
PUA : "Really? Awesome! Enjoy!" ( This is what I would react. )

Because you're not reacting to it like it is a threat, there's no jealousy it's you being awesome to her. If you are threatened it is a sign of weakness, makes you AFC.



Just get busy, go out with friends, you got more in your life just than her.

Hope you can use this advice.

-Will.

You've discovered how she acts when you bring up a problems. She tells you to die. She doesn't care abt you. From a few immature things I could tell she didn't care. Hence my advice to dump. Move on and find someone better. And yes, someone fucked her last night.

Thanks...

@Will this girl already showed him what kind of girlfriend material she is. And I'm not only talking about sending those pictures. Read through the entire topic please...

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Well i'll let you guys know how it went. She's coming home Friday, but I don't think she wants to talk right away, so im guessing Saturday is going be the day. Wish me luck

This.

But you'll crash and burn, judging from your desperation. That's fine though... Some people only learn from their mistakes, not from sound advice.

It was a harsh statement, but only because she is being a bitch

Something was bothering you and you did the right thing. You communicated to her that you didn't like her telling you about guys. Most guys would have a problem with this and it doesnt make you beta to be bothered that your gf is sending you pictures of guys. She told you your feelings dont matter and said she hopes you die. If she was a girl of any worth, she would have acknowledged her behavior and stopped. Instead she went low. If your feelings dont matter to her, what makes you think she would be faithful? Regardless, she is immature and puts your feelings last. If you want to salvage something with her fine.

Thanks for the advice guys. i'll keep it in mind.

I've been thinking alot lately and repeated the scenario's in my head multiple times. Should I give her a chance? Is she worth it? How do we move on from here? Can we still be friends?

Shit is driving me crazy.. Would she be worth a second chance? or should i just break up for how she treated me

She told you that she hoped you die, because you were bugged by the fact that she's going around clubbing with random dudes and sending you pictures with them and obviously trying to make you jealous. Now we all say stupid shit when we're angry, but she didn't even apologize immediately after. Why would you ever want to be friends with someone with a personality like that? She has the maturity level of a 12 year old. Looking for anything remotely serious with her, is a horrible idea, and based on her personality, is probably near impossible anyways. Her looks are the only thing about her that are worth anything. I think you should dump her, or at the very least, find other girls to game. As it is, it seems like you're way too deep in for this girl, and you'll be trying to make it work. I hate to say it, but she'll dispose of you like a wet rag if you keep trying to appease her and make things right. The only chance you have of fucking this girl again is by not giving a shit about her, or the relationship.

At this point, the only way to salvage the relationship, is as a lot of others have said before me, show that you don't care.

Why in the world you would want to salvage something like this, is a whole other matter though.

I would've wrote her a text saying "If I knew that this was the kind of person you are right from the beginning, we would never have happened. I wont stand for it any longer. It's over."

Now two things can happen.

1. She instantly replies in the lines of "I'm sorry bla bla bla." or she says "Fine." And then appologizes when you don't react to her accepting it. This grants you a position of power, where you can give her a second chance, or move on. (I reccomend the latter based on hear behaviour though).

2. She says "Fine." and it's over. In this case, there's nothing you could've done to save it in the first place. It's simply too late. If she had been more mature, you could've tried to talk to her and figure things out, but that won't work for this one.

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We shouldn't be the one to tell you what do to, mate. It's always your choice.

But ask yourself a question:

"What value did this girl bring into your life that you can't get anywhere else?"

I am respectful when it comes to relationships because I'm not the ONS type of guy either. But I only get into relationships for good reasons. And the reason is that the girl has something in her personality that is very unique, positive, and brings value to my life. The only thing unique I've so far seen in your girl however is that she's extremely immature. Does this mean any value for you, or does she have something else to offer?

Hope this helps, cheers mate.

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Hi again.

I broke up with her. I told her how I felt, what she said to me is inexcusable and that I wanted to end the relationship. She said she was already thinking alot in Ibiza and was feeling the same. I asked me in a funny way if she hated me. She said no, I still love you. Before i left I gave her a (goodbye)hug. She hugged me back and suddently she wrapped tight around me and started crying. I felt horrible, it wasn't my intention to make her cry, but then again I was expecting her to cry because of the breakup. So I hugged her for like 5-10 minutes straight while she was crying and then wiped her tears. I looked her in the eyes and she started smiling. I went in for a kiss (I still don't know why I did this). She kissed me back multiple times and after that I asked her if she wanted to go for a walk. We went to the market to buy some soda and she suddently grabbed my hand like we were in a relationship. We laughed and talked alot. We even kissed again and again and again... In the end I went home. I felt lonely. I felt like I made the bad decision. I felt like I still wanted her in my life. I texted her that I still loved her and that I felt like I made the wrong choice and that I wanted her back. I went over to her house and when she opened up the door I was sure. I still want this relationship to continue. We talked for a while, but the she said. I am confused, I love you but I don't think we should be together anymore. I felt horrible. I cried silently. I went home and knew there was no making up. It was all over. I went to a friends house later on to let it all out. He said that i'm better of without her and that I need to think about all the bitter things she said to me. I came to realise that he was right. Why did I go to her house after i broke up. Why did I go back to her house after all she's said to me.

This was the end of my Fairy Tail.

I sure could use some tips to stop thinking about her. ( I tried watching movies, but I just couldn't concentrate on the movie..)

Thanks for all the advice guys, I really appreciate it.

You did everything right until that point. It's understandable how you can get confused since she's returning love back to you. But you should not have caved in like a little bitch and texted her that... That's when you went downhill. For just a brief moment in your relationship, you were in control and in the driver's seat. But then you're like "fuck this, I'm gonna ride taxi." If you hadn't texted her that, she'd have tried desperately to win you back. But when she saw that you went crawling back to her in a matter of hours, you DLVed like a true noob.

Anyway who gives a shit. I'm sure she sucked a dick or two in Ibiza.

I cringed... I cringed hard... This was not the advice we gave you... The second to last thing you want to show or tell a girl while breaking up with is that you still love her. The VERY last thing you should ever do in a breakup is to change your mind and try to get her back...
Remember this for the future. Never show any emotion or grief in front of the girl next time you're going through a breakup. It may or may not get you the girl back (showing emotion is a guarantee that it won't), but it is a guarantee that when you look back at it, you will feel proud of yourself for keeping your dignity.