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by not wanting to "give her the satisfaction" (in your words) you are again plotting and scheming how to not be fazed, unfazed, fazed this, fazed that...etc
my advice to dump her had nothing to do with being reactionary and everything to do with being over her ass.
lol
i'da been like "we are done, peace, i'm going to get a coffee" and never talked to her again.
Yes, exactly.
When I saw this thread title, my first thought was "If she broke plans with me to hang with another guy, then she wouldn't even be my girlfriend anymore."
I can't even believe there is any debating going on, or that the OP even needed to ask what to do.
Dump her and go on with your life. End of story.