Hi,

I know that this is a little bit off the topic of the thread butI have also been through about the worst week of my life, I felt as though I was having a nervous breakdown. I was looking at my mobile or wanting to every five minutes to see if she had sent me a message. But that message never came.
My girlfriend of about a year told me a few weeks ago got pissed with me and didn't return my texts. I was holding out and yet eventually cos I wasn't sleeping etc. felt compelled to ring. It seemed that she was just going to leave it at that witout even explaining what was up.
Over the past year I have seen increasing signs that she basically wasn't all the bothered. She would arrive later and later and never call me. I was the one doing all the calling.
Anyway, she was angry because she said that we weren't spending any time together. So, I arranged for us to go on hoilday together in August (we go in a week) and yet since she got angry she has continued letting me phone her all the time. If I don't she'll text me to say she is doing something else or turn up really late at my place.

I feel she has little interest in spite of the fact that she told me that I am the "one" for her= that she loves me bla bla bla.

I see that she doesn't really have any interest in me and the other week, I had bought her a rose and a present and she told me that she would arrive at 6 to 6.30.
she rolled in at 8.10
I was adamant that I would not show I was angry. I felt so angry.
I just let her completely shit all over me. She didn't even ring to say she was going to be late.
Now, I am feeling angry and hurt and yet even now, if I don't phone she never gets in touch. I feel like she couldn't care less.
I know I should talk to her but even talking to her doesn't seem to change what she does.
I know now what I should do is hit on every hot babe I see but I have this one itis and I hate myself for it.
Sorry guys but just needed to vent this somewhere...

fuck her mom and/or her close friends. Payback time

if her friends is inviting you out then fuck her i would esp if her friend was hotter than her and your ex knows it but def stick to your guns dont speak with her ignore her totaly no texting or any contact what so ever if she shows up at your place dont anwser the door let her stand there all night who cares she not worth it shes trash

I'm just really trying to stick to my guns without getting all pissed off or resentful over whatever happened. It's so hard not wanting to go back to her but I'm going to do it. Picking up women now is going about as well as it was before but I have a harder time closing without thinking of the first woman I fell in love with. It hasn't even been a week yet though so I guess that will fade with time like the rest of it. Feels like I'm becoming a pickup artist all over again which is fun though.

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"All the dragons in our lives are perhaps princesses expecting us to be handsome and brave, all the terrifying things are perhaps nothing but helpless things waiting for us to help them." Rilke

Ask yourself WHY you need to pick up a girl straight away? i mean is your life that empty and devoid of fun that you NEED women in your life?

perhaps concentrate on YOU for a few weeks to get past the mourning period...

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If you want to know how to be successful with women, learn to obediance train your dog...

Good job breaking up with her, so next time shes drunk and your not there shes gonna do it again? what a whore..

Your better off without her and good luck in the future!

Nihro,

Woman expierience sex way different then men do. When a girl has sex she gets horny for a longer period. You not beeing there and her beeing a very horny/emotional fucked you up.

Since she is not rational she does not deserve a second chance.

You are doing good, keep up.

Riqueza.