You should not give up man, all you have to do is being tactical : do you go to the same places? like the same band?

You just have to found a reason to contact her, somthg that could seem natural, once its done, do like you would act with a girl with a BF, it's nothing more, nothing less; I want to say its more easy: show her how better she would be if you were her BF than the other dude

Easiest part is to contact her, hard is to seperate her from him! We were 2 years together, and 4 months ago we broke up, and 2 months ago she went to another man Cmon, i thought she loves me!
I wanted her to married this year, becouse of that it is hard for me. I want her back, just need good plan

and during the last 4 months, did you kiss/had sexe with other girls ? I mean at least did you try to forget her? Sometimes it's the easiest way to do.

about her BF issue, nothing is lost. First of all, you and her have to keep contact, she has to know that you're available for her (not as a friendzoned man). If the guy knows, he will be furious and probably will act dumb. this is where you can make the break : use all the boyfriend destroyer you can find here, the more you do the more he will act badly and she will think "come on, why do i stay with this guy? its only 4 months, my ex is always here, why did we break?"

I had other girls during this time, but still can't over my ex But, i think that i need to approach her with cold head so i can act "friendly" ...

In my opinion, the best way for you to play and get her back is to still fucking chicks or having a "relationship" with another girl while you are coming closer to her.

That's how she'll not think you are trying to convince to be with you again.

Become the one she needs to call when she is not fine, have fun with other girls, if you play right, you can have her again.

I downloading e-book, will read tomorrow ... Thx for advices people, i just need good plan, and if i show no emotion to her, i think i will get better results. Do you think would she accept me as friend, and if i call her to friendly chat or drink together that she'll accept?

dude, i'm kinda in the same boat as you. but i cheated on her once. and boom gone.

now i'm trying to win her back. but that guy she's hanging out with seems to be treating her pretty good. from what she says, that guy picks her to and fro work everyday. and treats her like an empress dowager.

we broke up about almost close to two months ago. and i acted like an afc when we broke up. and i haven't spoke to her since 2 weeks.

sometimes i wonder if it's really hopeless as all my friends are telling me to give up and find other chicks and stuff..

i'm kinda lost right now. not sure to give up or not to.

Dude, let be honest: if you cheat on her, there was a reason. when you have everything you need, you dont kiss of f*ck other girls.

I'm pretty sure you want to get her back only because you do not accept to see her with another man.

Think about it : do you want her because you trully love her or because you want her only for you?

I didn't cheated her and still she went to another man and probably love him ;(

I know I shouldn't have cheated. I made a mistake. And I still truly love her. she pops into my head everyday. I do miss her alot.

I'm just lost at wits ends. I made a big mistake and I just want to make things right.

Unfortunatly, I dont see what you can do if the other dude is acting pretty well with her ...

Oh well,

Maybe i should let go. and see what else pops by in the future. Letting go is such a bitch.

Tell me about that Watching someone you love with another man, it just sucks ...

letting go is tough and hard. Like they say, the best revenge is smiling. i'm trying real hard to smile. though it's really hard. maybe game some girls have fun.

My sister told me, "don't spend time finding the right girl, be the right man" which i agree,

I just can't believe that it's so hard te get over my ex. I loved other girls in my life, but like this, NEVER. I try several other girls during last 2 months, and nothing, there is no feelings The worst part is that i seeing my ex almost every day, cause she live 100 m from my house ;(( Fark it !