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My rant- I pretty much disagree with everything that has been said and hope I can be convinced otherwise. I'm going through the same thing with my gf of 7 months and my decision is almost made to just leave her.
I figure the problem is one that is only going to get worse. If you don't have someone who can match up to you sexually, then you will be spending your whole relationship thinking, stressing, and designing ways to get sex. In my opinion that's bullshit. Why should any of us have to settle for a gf that we have to figure what turns her on like punching numbers to unlock a safe? Even if you find ways to turn her on for the next few months, they will be old and routine after a year.
I thought as a PUA we operate as if we are the prize. I thought we have abundance theories and that if one girl can't satisfy us, on to the next. I thought we have mentalities of not accepting second best.
To me, it seems if you are not getting the sex you want and sex is a big thing to you in a relationship, then you should move on to the next girl. Life is too short, why settle? If you want sex 3-5 times a day, then goddamnit you shouldn't stop until you find a girl who will give you sex 3-5 times a day.
Googling "my wife has a low sex drive" gives a glimpse to what happens to poor schmucks who settle in their sex life and try a myriad of things to get their partners in the mood.
You have to make a choice my friend. There are relationships where all you do is have sex, and theres nothing more to it. There are many puas who have these relationships. Another relationship is one in which youre sexual with only one woman. Is this woman worth it? Does she make up for in her personality what she lacks in her sexual life? Decide if its worth it, and make your choice. You could also try telling her you want more sex, and see if that works.
CHAT
