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locke, thanks for this thread.
i am currently getting into an LTR with a new HB, and i need guidence on how to go about it. it seems like being all AFC around her builds comfort but sacrifices attraction, and being all PUA around her builds attraction but sacrifices comfort she wants for an LTR.
i'm trying to find a balance because i want to show her that i'm willing to commit to the LTR, but i am still the PUA she fell in love with!
excellent way of putting that. that's exactly it too....you have to find a happy medium; you have to BE the person you ARE, but set aside some of the tools you have been using.
Soon I will be releasing an informational tidbit on relationship basics. I will let you know.
Comfort and attraction will make an LTR last. GOod lUck!