Focusing on the problem does not result in more problems, it results in solutions.
Obsessive behavior towards a problem causes more problems as it leads to self-fulfilling prophecies.

I find it ridiculous as to how you're a woman and yet you talk about what a guy is feeling and why it can lead to him loosing an erection. I'll be sure to write an article on "The pains of giving birth and how to make it easier". Because I'm a man, so I would know.

His problem was either performance anxiety, being tired, being more drunk that he should have, a combination of all of them all or something entirely different. And yet you're stating that a woman needs to have clues about medicine in order to not attribute it to herself? Knowing anatomy/physiology is what makes you impervious to what are relatively normal human concerns?
Have you? My irony meter is experiencing a meltdown at this point.
You're trying really hard to come across as intelligent or otherwise educated yet this is the second time you throw xenophobic remarks. Which is highly characteristic to conservative, low IQ, ignorant and/or prejudiced people. That does not reflect intellect.

If you were someone else I'd probably try explaining the concept of quality and how "hot" women going for "unattractive Arabs" (<- implies rich) do not denote a country but rather a character trait. However I don't expect you to be apt of wrapping your mind around that so we'll leave it as is.

Also what's your obsession with highlight your being "attractive" and "having no problem getting dates" whereas I somehow would because I'm on a pickup forum? Sure, makes total sense. Just as any and every guy in the gym is supposedly fat for being there. There's that intelligence shinning through again.

There's a much higher chance you're fatass slob fishing for male attention on an internet forum, since that's likely the only place you're gonna get it. You can hide your appearance under internet anonymity and pretend to be hot and desirable but unfortunately for you you can't hide your mental agility. Posting kinda gives that one away.

And the worst part is, even if you're not any of those things, that's exactly how you come across and in that case you have even bigger problems to worry about.

You may claim you have no issues attracting men, but I'll tell you this much sunshine, I wouldn't go on a date with you even if you paid me.

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Perhaps you can give him a hand. Be a good wing girl and cook some LOVE magic potion for a change. Cause it is obvious you are an expert at throwing poison already

Seriously you are so argumentative, throwing fake "insults" at members claiming that are incapable of getting dates just because they are participating actively on the forum, while this could be far from the truth.

This is like the third thread you are doing this (plus your own threads). 2 of the previous threads since you have started commenting and arguing with others have already been locked. Seems like you are still here to thrive on the drama you create. I don't know about everyone else but I am rather amused by your presence. .

P.S. Oh boy, the guy who asked you to be his girlfriend is in for a surprise!


Coming back to the original subject, do you always have a new sexual partner who is there to support you right from the beginning? OP has reacted really emotionally and awkwardly as he has admitted and this was perhaps one of the important factors that this new girl has lost her attraction for.
The surprising aspect is that she still dates him without having sex, maybe she wants to drop him later on without being viewed that she ditched him only because of that.

In general when a woman sees a series of behaviors in a guy which make him look weak, indecisive, passive, coward in combination with the guy being too available and a sure thing, then she loses her attraction for him. Whether or not he could get it up, it is not the important thing why she lost interest for sex. He could have not make a big deal out of it and continue touching her until he relaxed or make her cum just with his hands.

It could also be that the girl wasn't much into him in the first place and now is even less.

But it sure reflected a lot of intellect on your part when you contradicted your own notion of not offering support to people you've just met....and yet you've offered your support to a random stranger on this forum. Nice.

How charming. It's funny because I never stooped so low as to call you a 'fatass slob fishing for female attention'. I can see that you are quite the gentleman and with that exquisite verbiage, oh la la, the ladies must be enamored.
Did I ask you for a date? Where'd you get these things from? HOW could you even think of such a mess?

The same exact thing can be applied to women. It's really not rocket science.

Nope. Not in the same extent. Most men wouldn't leave the girl with the above behaviors if she was hot and good in bed. They would leave her much easier if she proved to be dirty, unhygienic, without manners, and not being too bright rather then the above mentioned. For me a stupid and confident woman is much worse than it is for the average woman to have a confident but stupid guy.

Even if the guy was extremely good looking and few weeks later he was revealed to be a momma's boy, big wuss and doormat then the majority of women would drop him in a heartbeat. Most men on the other hand value much more the looks than everything else and therefore they wouldn't drop her easily, maybe would not have dropped her at all.

Don't forget there is always the hot women who have nothing else going on but looks and they would marry this kind of guy when they reach certain age after they had lots of fun in their lives and know that their sexual appeal and a chance to find a quality man is diminishing. They would take this kind of good looking wuss provider guy so that they look good as a window shop and know they can control him easily behind the scenes.

However I', going out of subject here.

Most men are in it for the looks, like you say....and here are the shmucks arguing about what she's got to offer. A great personality and good looks?
Yep, seen it. Total bitch and he's pussy whipped.
That's why it's favorable for a woman to be both hot and career-oriented- double the arsenal.
But I have to disagree about the second part. If a woman is good looking but has no financial blanket, believe me, even the ugliest of them all knows this and uses it against her. She wants to leave? She can't, she's dependent on him.

Try xenophobic remarks. How's that for low?

You're right though, the ladies are indeed enamored. You'd know if you were one, maybe I'd have treated you as such.

Did I hurt your feelings sunshine? or was this puppy eyed reply the best you could do while dripping venom on your keyboard?

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Well, that is why this type of hot, lazy bitchy woman that will go for the decent / good looking doormat guy because he will do what she wants and will be able to drain him emotionally and financially. If they guy starts setting foot, she will find other ways to hurt him, threatening him to take the custody of the kids, being sweet for a little while to change his mind etc.

You obviously hate women. The women only are enamoured because they are Romanian hence easy. You can never handle a real hot woman with a good career. Why are you even on here?

No, not really....Is that all you've got? LOL.

You use crass words. That's all I was saying. I didn't. That's the difference.

Do you also use crass words with the women that turn you down?

If you're such a gentleman, why are you even stooping so low to this conversation? Never said I was a lady. In fact, I'm a 43-year-old dude seeking some young man booty and you just took the bait.

I just find it funny how you guys are all such great gentleman. Do you also insult the ladies that turn you down with rude crass words?

Where did I insult you or use crass words toward you there?? Or anywhere?!

What's fucked up is I didn't even exaggerate your words and you felt insulted because of things you've said.

Lol.

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There's no such thing as shit-tests.
How to keep a girl.

Oh, I'm sorry neo, but it's really hard for me to distinguish one arse from another.

This one's for you RC. You were the one that used crass words. Here's your trophy by the way. You win.

Look at his piglet sig, enough said. Probably requests an extra chair at the table for his security blanket if he even gets fortunate enough to get a girl out for dinner.