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I know.. I am confusing, sorry. I sometimes confuse myself too. This is kind of the general feeling I have lol.
Bro first try to understand, is this a relationship or a delusionship?

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As far as i know, it's a relationship. I just want it to work out and be the best man i can. For myself, AND for her.
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I know.. I am confusing, sorry. I sometimes confuse myself too. This is kind of the general feeling I have lol.
Bro first try to understand, is this a relationship or a delusionship?
lol good god If this isn't a quotable I don't know what is.
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Enlighten me with knowledge and help me open my eyes instead of taking the piss then. Cause, with all due respect, i didn't come here to get roasted..
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Enlighten me with knowledge and help me open my eyes instead of taking the piss then. Cause, with all due respect, i didn't come here to get roasted..
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First off, LDR's don't work. Distance creates distance.
That's an opinion, they do in fact work you just have to be willing and strong to survive it.
R.C did give you the correct answer. The problem is that you don't like it. There has to be two people strong enough to make LDR's work. In the case of most LDR's, there is only one that is willing to put in real effort and that is usually the person who has less options.

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I hear that, and somewhere inside i know too. But for some reason i feel like it's too soon to pull the plug. I feel like she's not giving me enough signs to do that just yet. Hence why i'm asking; how should i thread?
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I hear that, and somewhere inside i know too. But for some reason i feel like it's too soon to pull the plug. I feel like she's not giving me enough signs to do that just yet. Hence why i'm asking; how should i thread?
Who is the one putting in the effort, you or her? If you are the one putting in the effort then it means you are the one that is responsible for keeping things going so far. Why not allow her to be the one to put in the effort? I'm pretty sure you didn't do that because you already know that she won't and that would mean it's the end.

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I hear that, and somewhere inside i know too. But for some reason i feel like it's too soon to pull the plug. I feel like she's not giving me enough signs to do that just yet. Hence why i'm asking; how should i thread?
Who is the one putting in the effort, you or her? If you are the one putting in the effort then it means you are the one that is responsible for keeping things going so far. Why not allow her to be the one to put in the effort? I'm pretty sure you didn't do that because you already know that she won't and that would mean it's the end.
I have to learn to accept that, and i'm busy doing so by not focussing on it anymore. Still, i don't know what to do. Do i message her at all? I'm new to serious relationships (albeit from one side) cause all the girls i've met untill now bore the shit out of me..
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I know.. I am confusing, sorry. I sometimes confuse myself too. This is kind of the general feeling I have lol.
Bro first try to understand, is this a relationship or a delusionship?
lol good god If this isn't a quotable I don't know what is.
Hahahah thx man :mrgreen:

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I hear that, and somewhere inside i know too. But for some reason i feel like it's too soon to pull the plug. I feel like she's not giving me enough signs to do that just yet. Hence why i'm asking; how should i thread?
Who is the one putting in the effort, you or her? If you are the one putting in the effort then it means you are the one that is responsible for keeping things going so far. Why not allow her to be the one to put in the effort? I'm pretty sure you didn't do that because you already know that she won't and that would mean it's the end.
I have to learn to accept that, and i'm busy doing so by not focussing on it anymore. Still, i don't know what to do. Do i message her at all? I'm new to serious relationships (albeit from one side) cause all the girls i've met untill now bore the shit out of me..
Part of me has become cynical when guys say that they are not focusing on a girl anymore but still want to know what to do. You are looking for an answer that allows you to get the girl in the end while you already know that it is impossible in your current state of life. Your shit isn't in order and all you are offering her is your insecurity. Get it together and then contact her.

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You'd rather buck off the advice given rather than accept it, because it'd change the outcome you desire.
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cause all the girls i've met untill now bore the shit out of me..
She is not special.

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Get it together and then contact her.
Define "get it together". Lets change the question a bit. How should i change myself to become a better man.
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Get it together and then contact her.
Define "get it together". Lets change the question a bit. How should i change myself to become a better man.
1. Fix the job situation
2. Value yourself more - meaning that if a girl can't return the same feelings that you give to her...you don't value yourself enough.
3. Realize that this girl isn't really special. As you said, you are new to serious relationships. She is only special because she is a type that you haven't come across yet. There are more out there like her.

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Lol I'm not focusing on her anymore... But how do I do xyz with her?

Simple answer if she isn't talking to you she doesn't care about talking to you. If she doesn't care about talking to you she's bored with you. If she's bored with you she's gonna end it. Be prepared for a you deserve more than I can give speech.

Either way if she's not putting effort it its over man.
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1. Fix the job situation
I did, within the first week of getting back.
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2. Value yourself more - meaning that if a girl can't return the same feelings that you give to her...you don't value yourself enough.
This is something i actually have to work on. But alas, you dont learn this in a day.
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3. Realize that this girl isn't really special. As you said, you are new to serious relationships. She is only special because she is a type that you haven't come across yet. There are more out there like her.
This is probably also true, but that doesnt mean it's not worth finding out what might be, is it weird that for that reason i leave pulling the plug to her?
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Either way if she's not putting effort it its over man.
I guess she is, just not as much as I would like her to. This is one of the reasons i'm confused. Maybe i'm overthinking? Maybe i should just shut up and don't bitch cause theres nothing to ACTUALLY be worried about?


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