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So this friday she'll apparently go to a concert in the town where she used to live with her ex and the band is of her ex's brother...I know because it showed on facebook's news feed that she'll assist to the event.
Now I dont know if her ex is back living in that town again because he moved to Israel when she was there to try and get her back, but nevertheless seems strange that she would go to another town just to see her ex's brother's band play and also she would have to stay overnight in that town because there are no trains to get back after 10pm..
She's coming over to my place tomorrow afternoon and I really dont know how to act after this, I trust her in some way but my experience with women tells me to be cautious when there's an ex in the background or a recent break-up (in this case 5 or 6 months ago). It could be that she's just good friends with her ex's brother, given that they spent quite some time together..
Would you guys dump her or continue and see if its just my imagination?
Ok so she just lied to me about this. Today is the day of the concert and yesterday she suggested going out for a drink at the same time of the concert and I agreed...
Today she texted me that "she didnt remember that today was her moms birthday and that she had to SPAM with her tonight, so better leave it for tomorrow" LMAO at the excuse. She obviously doesnt know that I saw on facebook she was assisting the concert which is in her ex's town and from her ex's brother.
This lie tells me she's hiding something and while its true we are not official, lying is not acceptable at this stage (nearly GF/BF) and it hurts me. Would you guys dump her after this lie, confront her about it or continue as if I didnt know anything? This last option seems difficult to me because you can tell when im not okay (my face would show it off).