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PostPosted: Fri Jan 22, 2016 4:22 pm 
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So this friday she'll apparently go to a concert in the town where she used to live with her ex and the band is of her ex's brother...I know because it showed on facebook's news feed that she'll assist to the event.
Now I dont know if her ex is back living in that town again because he moved to Israel when she was there to try and get her back, but nevertheless seems strange that she would go to another town just to see her ex's brother's band play and also she would have to stay overnight in that town because there are no trains to get back after 10pm..
She's coming over to my place tomorrow afternoon and I really dont know how to act after this, I trust her in some way but my experience with women tells me to be cautious when there's an ex in the background or a recent break-up (in this case 5 or 6 months ago). It could be that she's just good friends with her ex's brother, given that they spent quite some time together..
Would you guys dump her or continue and see if its just my imagination?
Ok so she just lied to me about this. Today is the day of the concert and yesterday she suggested going out for a drink at the same time of the concert and I agreed...
Today she texted me that "she didnt remember that today was her moms birthday and that she had to SPAM with her tonight, so better leave it for tomorrow" LMAO at the excuse. She obviously doesnt know that I saw on facebook she was assisting the concert which is in her ex's town and from her ex's brother.
This lie tells me she's hiding something and while its true we are not official, lying is not acceptable at this stage (nearly GF/BF) and it hurts me. Would you guys dump her after this lie, confront her about it or continue as if I didnt know anything? This last option seems difficult to me because you can tell when im not okay (my face would show it off).


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 22, 2016 8:42 pm 
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In your mind, not hers, WTF do you think she's going there for? It's not YOUR dick!
How would you confront her about knowing she's lied without appearing needy or stalker? (I know she's going to that concert because she clicked she's assisting and it shows on facebook feed and I have a screenshot).


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In your mind, not hers, WTF do you think she's going there for? It's not YOUR dick!
How would you confront her about knowing she's lied without appearing needy or stalker? (I know she's going to that concert because she clicked she's assisting and it shows on facebook feed and I have a screenshot).

Dude. Neo said it, she lied, consciously.


Dump her.

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 22, 2016 8:58 pm 
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In your mind, not hers, WTF do you think she's going there for? It's not YOUR dick!
How would you confront her about knowing she's lied without appearing needy or stalker? (I know she's going to that concert because she clicked she's assisting and it shows on facebook feed and I have a screenshot).
Seeing how you love Fakebook so much, post on her wall; "I just found out something, you should go get checked by a Dr."

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In your mind, not hers, WTF do you think she's going there for? It's not YOUR dick!
How would you confront her about knowing she's lied without appearing needy or stalker? (I know she's going to that concert because she clicked she's assisting and it shows on facebook feed and I have a screenshot).
She lied to you and you're worried about how you appear? To me, that is probably one of the most neediest traits that you can have.

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In your mind, not hers, WTF do you think she's going there for? It's not YOUR dick!
How would you confront her about knowing she's lied without appearing needy or stalker? (I know she's going to that concert because she clicked she's assisting and it shows on facebook feed and I have a screenshot).
This made me scream at my phone. Literally.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 25, 2016 9:49 am 
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Girl is going over there to get some ex bf dink action and you're worried how you'd appear for knowing she attended an event over PUBLIC social media?

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 25, 2016 2:32 pm 
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Well OP?

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Turns out she didn't go to that event after all. I didnt even confront her about it, instead I just suggested meeting that same night to see in an indirect way if she was going or not and she agreed. I'm glad I didn't jump to a conclusion without knowing for sure whether she would go to that concert or not, and gave her the benefit of the doubt. She probably clicked she was assisting to the concert on facebook without any intention of doing so, I know people do this all the time.
The lesson I learnt from this is not to get all mad unless you know for a fact that something happened, otherwise you risk looking like a fool, which is what I would have looked like if I had confronted her about seeing on facebook that she was going to a concert when in reality she wasn't going to.


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Perhaps she didn't add the photo to her timeline because she knows her ex will crap his pants and bug her about it. And she probably wants to be single because her ex is a wuss-bag.

Don't worry about the ex.

Don't be like her ex. Don't mention dating her. Continue the sex, have fun being around her, and enjoy life. Do that and she'll get attached to you.

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Social media is for teenage girls vying for attention with duck face cleavage selfies - Crying for drama - and posting life events-when you have no life.

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Social media is for teenage girls vying for attention with duck face cleavage selfies - Crying for drama - and posting life events-when you have no life.
Hate to say it but you pretty much nailed it.


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So this friday she'll apparently go to a concert in the town where she used to live with her ex and the band is of her ex's brother...I know because it showed on facebook's news feed that she'll assist to the event.
Now I dont know if her ex is back living in that town again because he moved to Israel when she was there to try and get her back, but nevertheless seems strange that she would go to another town just to see her ex's brother's band play and also she would have to stay overnight in that town because there are no trains to get back after 10pm..
She's coming over to my place tomorrow afternoon and I really dont know how to act after this, I trust her in some way but my experience with women tells me to be cautious when there's an ex in the background or a recent break-up (in this case 5 or 6 months ago). It could be that she's just good friends with her ex's brother, given that they spent quite some time together..
Would you guys dump her or continue and see if its just my imagination?
Ok so she just lied to me about this. Today is the day of the concert and yesterday she suggested going out for a drink at the same time of the concert and I agreed...
Today she texted me that "she didnt remember that today was her moms birthday and that she had to SPAM with her tonight, so better leave it for tomorrow" LMAO at the excuse. She obviously doesnt know that I saw on facebook she was assisting the concert which is in her ex's town and from her ex's brother.
This lie tells me she's hiding something and while its true we are not official, lying is not acceptable at this stage (nearly GF/BF) and it hurts me. Would you guys dump her after this lie, confront her about it or continue as if I didnt know anything? This last option seems difficult to me because you can tell when im not okay (my face would show it off).
You're acting like a head case, way to reaffirm why she doesn't call you her bf.


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