Why be in a relationship when you feel you can't trust the woman? I'd give a woman the same exact advice...although I may have a motive for giving her that advice.

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You mean she couldn't have found 10 spare minutes to give him a blowie in the green room before the show? J/k.

I agree with everyone on the shady aspect of her not telling you it was her ex before she went to the show. And now to travel 5 hours where she'll be closer so she can possibly or possibly not meet w/ him. Something seems off. Then again, it could be nothing.

Thank you all for the comments! After reading them all I wanted to kind of summarize my own thoughts and the thoughts of those who have responded.

>>>>Why I have been able to trust her since this incident:<<<<

She has proven to me (besides other little petty things like responding to other guys texts blah blah blah) over the past 8 months since this has happened that she is loyal and trustworthy.

-She texts me every morning and calls me every night.

-She has invited me to multiple family events (holidays, weddings ect) and her parents respect me and really like me.

-She has gone out of her way for me in many ways from traveling with me, supporting me in my work, and spending EVERY yes EVERY weekend with me for the past year. We have yet to not see each other at least 1-2 days a weekend this past year which I feel is quite a committed effort.

-She lets me do whatever I want with her in bed and we hookup constantly.


The above however I do feel is pretty standard in any "normal" healthy relationship. But she is meeting a lot of my needs. She isnt meeting all of them all the time, but again thats impossible and unrealistic yes?

So, that being said, I think im just going to overlook this and move forward. If anyone else has any more comments please I would love to hear them.

***I just wanted to personally thank everyone who has commented and posted on this thread. I really thank you for your time and expertise.***

Sincerely,
-Duke