That very well maybe maria_, but I can only go with my life experience and with what I believe. Thats what I'm going to use to determine how I want to live my life. I am thankful that you are providing alternate perspectives. I've considered them, and I'll probably even discuss them with her once she gets home. I just look at nature; to come to my conclusion.

From understanding; me and my girlfriend have a very honest relationship. This is part of the reason I felt comfortable telling her what I was feeling in the first place. I didn't go behind her back and start sleeping with other women. I simply came to her and expressed what I was feeling and we were able to come to a conclusion that we both could live with. I even asked her if she gets the same feeling and she told me that she doesn't, but if she ever feels that I'll be the first person to know.

She her own self has brought other women to me to see if I think they would fit; but I personally did not. I've brought women to her and sometimes we meet women together.

So all in all, I have to judge her by her actions and not her words. Now if she's secretly lying to me just so she can enjoy the luxury of a relationship, all while helping me acquire a second girlfriend and maintaining the rest of her social life. More power to her. I could only admire the amount of energy and skill it would take to put up this great of a front. I'll salute her, give her a hug and learn something new about myself.

I'm happy though; so I'm going to live this out for the moment. And I want to thank you once again for taking the time out of your day to help me see things from another perspective.

Much love to ya maria_!

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Hey eddie, just for clarification...why wouldn't you want a gf who sleeps with other guys?

It just turns me off. It could be one of my imperfections; I'm just not interested in sleeping with women who sleep with multiple men at once. Now if I don't know about it, thats different. Its a mental thing.

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It sounds like a double standard initially; and I definitely understand the position of your question and why you asked it. She asked me the same question and we talked about this very thing.

It don't sound like a double standard......IT IS A DOUBLE STANDARD. If it smell's like chicken taste like chicken....right?

Ask a woman " Why haven't you had sex with 100 men yet ? " - The majority of women with a normal hormonal balance will tell you, that that is not something they want.

This might sound kind of crazy but, Ask any girl you know this question. What would you do if you had penis? you would probably get same answer which is, I would fuck every girl I could. I asked three woman in my life this question before.1a girl I used to mess with,2 a ex of mine and 3 my current girlfriend and they all gave that same answer. You see I don't think they necessarily want a penis (some do) I think they just look at the act of having a penis argo being a man and having sex with 100 or more members of the opposite sex as a way of doing it and not being judge. It's as marie said, society looks down on woman when it comes to that.

Its sad to say but, If a man sleeps with a 100 woman he's looked at as a stud. If a woman sleeps with 100 men she's looked at like a slut. Which is also another (all together now class) DOUBLE STANDARD!!!


Ask a man why he hasn't had sex with 100 women yet - He'll tell you he just hasn't had the time to yet. He would if he could.

And you can't lump every body in the same circle. Different people want different things I have to friend and a brother who don't want to sleep with 100 woman they just want someone special.... some 1.

To be blunt Eddiewotp we are not challenging you. We are just telling it like it is.

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I get that. I'm not into that too. The problem I have is if I was dating a girl who agreed to let me sleep with other women while she didn't...I'd feel like a) she is lying and would be sleeping with dudes or b) she's super submissive and I'm borderline abusing/controlling her. I'd look at her badly because I'd think she has no self esteem or backbone. That's just how I feel I'd see it. How do you view it?