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I gotta disagree here....
Guys and girls can be friends. A guy and girl can text for days and it can be easily be nothing. They could be sharing jokes, gossiping, talking their problems, laughing at an old story or just jibberish. Many women today send texts all day to their female friends about random stuff and some guys are into that.
Just because a guy and girl are loling for days doesn't mean they're falling in love or connecting or "getting attracted." It's the PUA fallacy that a girl laughing is this Indicator or Interest, implying it gets her attracted to you. That's why you find posts about guys who get "IOI's" from a female friend (ie she laughs at his jokes and touch him jokingly) then get pissed when she's not into him. Girls laugh with their guy friends, and can "kino" friends and it doesn't mean they like them like that or are getting attracted. It's just how women communicate.
Him messaging her doesn't mean he likes her as more than a friend and doesn't mean it's anything on her end. Newsflash, many girls have a personality. Not every guy is trying to bang every girl. A girl can find a guy funny and interesting yet he doesnt possess the characteristics she's attracted to = just friends. And a guy can find a girl hot yet genuinely enjoy her personality. It's pickup that seperates guys into "Players" who bang every girl, and AFCs who WANT and TRY to bang girls but can't. No, many average guys don't want to bang, have girls they are committed to, focused on goals that are bigger than pussy. I've never understood how there are so many threads with guys who get friendzoned, but the consensus is that if your girlfriend has a male friend they're eventually going to bang.
If she's looking for other guys, if she likes your friend she likes a few other guys as well. Figure out your trust issues with your girl. If he likes her and she knows she's doing the same with other guys. If they both like each other and convos are non platonic then she's doing it with other guys.
Santa IS real!
So is every guy who talks to a girl trying to fuck her? Not saying guys WOULDN'T fuck a friend but is that the motive of every guy or most guys? There is a reason the community is underground; it's because most guys just don't care that much abt sex and don't want to try for it.
Is a girl finding a guy funny mean she wants to do him? If that's the case guys should just be funny and girls will want them
Is the number of msgs you send a girl = her liking you romantically? If thats the case guys should focus on sending more messages
Can't have it both ways. Either girls like most of their guy friends (if that's so, then screw going direct because it's the confidence and balls that attract women...just be their friends and they will fuck you) or they don't. The problem with the community is thinking of everything in terms of sex and seeing everyone's actions as related to getting sex from someone. It devalues just being normal and friendship. Don't get friends, get wings. Get a social circle, not to have fun, but so it's easier to get women. Don't workout for your health but so it's easier to get approach invitations at the bar. A guy and girl can't just like talking, one of them must have a motive to get sex.
Your gf could well be falling for this guy, but in no way them talking alot means she's into him like that or he is some chump for actually having a female friend. Wow, he can't just be a guy who enjoys talking to her, he must be trying to fuck.
Life is more than getting laid to most people. If all you know is they talk alot, look at the content before jumping to conclusions.
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