But doesn't she have a right to be mad?
"Just put yourself in my place, I'm not doubting your feelings or whatever, I'm just really upset. I just can't believe I was one of those girls you used to flirt with, thats so... idk. I don't know what to think, if I knew that I wouldn't even talk to you. Anyways I'm not here to judge you, I'm just telling you what I think and what I'm feeling."
This is what she texted me yesterday before going to bed.
She sent me a heart in the evening today, & I sent her a Kiss face because most of the times when we had an argument I would grab her and kiss her and everything would of end well (since the argument wasn't that serious). Don't know if this was right, but she ignored it. Going to keep on with the no contact until she contacts me first, getting pretty tired of this to be honest.

This is a tip for your next girlfriend. When making an emotional connection with your girl and you two are both talking about your past, tell her the truth. Tell her how you were like. And if the relationship is getting serious, tell her how you've changed, since you met her. Women love a badboy who turned good. You will achieve the best effect when you do this right after sex.

Dude, you are whipped and this girl has you by the balls. You flirted with girls. Is she 16 or something? Or younger? 13? Is she mentally retarded or messed up in some way? Because any normal girl would at least have the sense to know that yes, you have flirted with other girls, you have kissed other girls and you have fucked other girls. Same way you can't be stupid enough to think you're the first guy she's said I love you too or sucked his cock. If she acts this way over you simply flirting with other girls in the past then what will happen when a real issue comes? What will happen when random chick posts hi on your wall? Or a girl says hi to you in person? Or a girl likes you? Or someone says you are talking to another chick? She is not rational and she will treat you like shit again. And you want this chick? Maybe she is right. You finally got someone to say yes and now you will put up with anything.

OP: you're not even listening.

Waste of time even replying at this point.

This has actually been my first girlfriend since middle school (which I actually don't count at all) and yes, you're right. I am putting up with everything because I am blinded by my emotions and the fact that "I've never met anyone like her" shit.
I'm honestly not going to put up with her anymore, all of this flirting stuff happened BEFORE I went out with her so all of my needy essays I sent her just proved how much I was afraid to lose her.
She keeps this up I am dumping her at the spot.
I appreciate every single persons help on here, again, sorry for my ignorance.
I will keep you guys updated on whatever happens.

Alright, so I haven't spoken to her since early Monday and I have been keeping myself busy with friends, homework, incoming college interview, etc...
Before anything, I want to tell you guys that she is the type of woman to get upset for even the smallest thing and stay upset about it for almost a week (I've seen it happen). She is the type to not text first after an argument, but gives hints (friends, speaking indirectly, etc) so I could say something.
When I see her on campus on the upcoming Monday, I am going to break up with her.
I understand I have made many AFC moves because of my emotions & I could of easily avoided doing that since I have done nothing wrong, but I don't want to just break up with her after a week of no contact, I want to make sure she is either in her attitude or over it (it'll put me at ease).
If she is still in her attitude, I will take AFCToTheMax's advice. But first, how do I initiate the conversation?

I would just be direct. Just tell her that something that is acceptable to you and the most of population as well, is not acceptable to her. This will fuck our relationship even more in the future. She is too immature, but you decide if you want to use that word for her

Female here - it sounds like she's too insecure for a meaningful relationship. I have been that girl (sad but true), and listen to me very carefully.

She does like you. But here's the problem - she would never tolerate you being in the same room as another female. She will be insecure and blow up at you at the drop of a hat because she doesn't think you will stay with her. This in turn will likely cause her to become controlling, overly jealous, and possibly even abusive. (Note: Some of her behavior already sounds borderline abusive.) The fact that she is using your PAST (as in THINGS THAT CANNOT BE CHANGED) as a chip against you is a serious, serious red flag.

Kudos on breaking up with her. You can do SO much better.

Dr Banzys diagnosis: you have oneitis. this wouldnt be an issue for you if you didnt have it.

grow a big pair and make sure yours is hanging past your knees, then make the man desicion and score 10 hbs.