After I asked her if she was busy tomorrow night...

3:31 PM
Her: Listen your a really nice guy and any girl would be lucky to have you but i dont think we would work out

7:32 PM
Me: Thats fair... I know you've been hurt before so I really tried to be nice but I guess that made me seem boring... I'm not offended cause I know I'm not like that... I wish you woulda got to know me more, hence my plan for tomorrow...
Me: And I respect you for at least letting me know, it says a lot about you

8:18 PM


5:48 AM
Me: Oh ok, no hard feelings... It was nice meeting you

***
Haven't heard from her since, I know my last message was a little cold but I had to at least keep some diginity

** I don't know what really struck me as NICE but she kept saying it, but her first msg was really a shocker, she was so into me that night and even signaled her friend to leave the car so she could kiss me (i caught her looking at her friend signaling her lips)
And she knows I'm out of the country for another month (leaving in couple days)

We met back in September, right before I left for Florida. I come back every month and our first date was a month ago but this whole time she said she was willing to wait and everything...

It's over. I think anything else would just be needy.

Learn and move on. Learn some relationship game... PU is just about pick up, not how to keep a woman.

Why do you say that? Just so I can learn...

Because it came to the point of her sending you a long goodbye message.

When she said you were a nice guy at first you should have just responded all casual like and try fit in the Mystery line without sounding needy. It depends on how you are with the chick and how you got along with her.

Does that really sound like a goodbye msg? I mean I feel we could have still talked but I kinda gave a short end to the convo... Maybe she was expecting me to fight for her a little bit? I really don't know. Like I said, she seemed real genuine but I really don't believe she doesn't like me. We felt a lot like a couple that night and her friend kept bringing it up, maybe in the back of her mind she kept thinking of her ex and it was just too much for her...

All I really want is to keep the door open for something in the future, I don't need to push anything right now. If she needs space I'll give her that but I know I can't wait around... I'm out of town for a month anyway, so I don't know if I should disappear from this girls life or what? All I can really hope for is her to come around and reconsider without me trying, but then again I feel some persistence at the right time could do the trick?

As far as us getting along, I thought we hit it off pretty well that night and she normally is a shy girl but she seemed to open up a lot, especially when her friend joined us later that night... As far as texting and all that, we don't text eachother much, I really kept it to the minimum of just building rapport and to set up a date... But she was REALLY keen on meeting up with me also...