He's not a threat to you. Let him burn himself out, tell her that his behavior isn't normal she shouldn't contact him for her own safety. Tell her how to block his number, but don't force her to do it.

He sounds like a "nice guy" who expects sex and devotion from her for all the times he was there for her being her emotional tampon and he has bitterness and resentment along with his unhealthy obsession.

Rough Operator, I will definitely agree that he have an unhealthy obsession. He clearly bother my gf with this kind of behaviour. She have a low confidence and are afraid to confront people who bother her, like this dude. Second, It seems like he have several traits which is similar to psychopats. Not saying that he is, but Im a bit afraid that if I do not interfere and make it clear that I will woop his little ass he with continue to do this and maybe even get violent if he finds my girlfriend. She told me that one day when she were on her way home to school, the guy waited for her at the busstop to start a conversation with her while she were moving to the trainstation.

Did you still not kick his ass dude ?


Seriously...first go talk to him calmly stating he shout back off.
If he doesn't understand and does it again , you kick his ass.
If he even attempts to go violent towards your girl , destroy him.

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My best female friend had a guy similar to this.

Except he sexually assaulted her whilst she was drunk one time, but she couldn't get enough evidence to prosecute him. He continued to stalk her despite her going to the police. One day he showed up at her work and showed her a tattoo that he had... Of her! I am not even making this up I swear!

Me, her older brother and three other friends of ours went round to this guy's house and made it clear how we felt about the situation. We didn't use violence, but we made things crystal clear and we also took photos of his tattoo to show the police.

Well, Two words......Restraining Order.

If the police wont step in immediately then at the very least she needs to start establishing a record of harassment by filing complaints...

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This^. Don't try to fight him or even go talk to him. There are charges for intimidation. Didn't read everything but get her to cut contact and to let him know. Then she blocks his number. If he shows up somewhere report it.

Hey , how did this situation pan out

Update.

On the guy stalking her I told my girlfriend that I thought he was bothering us as a couple and that it had to be dealt with. I told her that I supported her 100% and would help her if she wanted. First she called the guy and told that he should stop calling her. I lasted roughly a couple of days and then he started calling her again up to a 100 times a day. Now answered his phone and said that he should stop contacting her in anyway of she would have to tell her father so he would be in on this. Thats a week ago and so far not a sound from the guy.

On the other hand, a new guy has chosen to contact my gf frequently. He was a classmate of her when she was in highschool. The guy is in the army as training for sergeant. He were several times bragging on how good he was in the army and that the army wanted top deploy him in afghanistan now. As former combat engineer who have been through all this I immediately called his buff and told my girlfriend that no way this was real. The papers he had showed her were about afghanistan, but all people in the army have to sign a paper that they want to get deployed and are willingly to do so if necessary. My girlfriend talked with this friend about it and he admitted he may have lied a bit about it. My girlfriend now chose to take a break from this friend and now he keeps writing to her 24/7. He write on her facebook wall several times a week. He writes stuff like "pick up your phone sweety" and "Fix that phone". He even made groups about her answering her phone. Well clearly this guy is an AFC and it's quite fun to hear him try. But at the same time its a bit frustating to know that there are a guy hitting on my girlfriend every day.

I will keep you guys updated if any relevant news come abroad

Thanks bro for the update keep us posted its an interesting situ

Sorry for bumping old thread but did things stay calm?

Ever seen the movie Stalking Laura? It's not a happy ending, so you can see why your gf is being cautious.

Keep records of his contact, how often he is calling etc. Submit a harassment case to the police when you have enough evidence. Bear in mind your gf's occasional responses may be leading him on. Trolls are most unhappy when nobody responds. Without a victim acknowledging him, he has no power and will eventually find another victim.

I would be tempted to kick his ass though.