Im going to end this thread because its a waste of my time from this point on, her and I are done! she doesn't exist to me right now...

She never respected me, appreciated me or anything I had done for her, If she doesn't see what she had, If she doesn't see that she was with an amazing guy then its her loss. I only wanted the best for her! I did everything I could to make her happy and in the end she didn't appreciated any of it!

It took me a long time to come to this realization but I know what I am worth and I am done with her. I will find a women who treats me with respect, who shows me how much they want to be with me, and knows how lucky they are.

I'm going to look back on this experience one day and be thankful! It will allow me to appreciate the next girl that comes along, and be cautious about who I pick to spend my life with!

I"m sorry to hear that man. That shit is always rough, it hurts sometimes, period. But I want to point something out: I think you have an awesome frame on it. And, I think you did what you were supposed to do. Most people get comfortable and don't want to experience the feeling of 'loss' in their life, and continue a relationship until it gets really bad. I know, because I was that person, but never again.

'who doesn't realize she has an amazing bf!' Awesome frame man, props and respect.

Thanks man, I am doing much better! first little bit was really tough! it was the lowest point in my life, but after some self reflection, and some reflection on our relationship, and her actions I realized that she is not the angle I thought she was.

She was a pretty face and that's about it. Yes I loved her, yes we have a lot in common but so what? she didn't add any value to my life other then the fact that she was good looking....my career suffered, my social life, and I went though more stress in the last few months than most in a life time lol

I also found out she has already fooled around with another guy which grosses me out. Thought she would have more self respect!

any way I still have some warm feelings for her, and fond memories but at the end of the day she missed out on something really good! I am the kind of guy most girls dream about being married to and she took that for granted! I'm just glad I got out of the relationship and woke the fu%k up! lol I now realize how unbalanced and one sided the relationship was.