| UPDATE3: the breakup
(yesterday, at 11pm she did text me "good night sweetheart")
she had no idea i was gonna break up with her today.
i texted her during the day today "meet me here and there are 7pm need to talk" she still had no ideaa i was gonna break up with her, when she showed up... strange. is she stupid or what?
i was super cold with her, she was smiling all the way during the breakup, she probably didn't even realize what was going on until i gave her all her stuff and left.
The breakup went:
Me: do you know why we are here?
Her: no, why?
Me: is there something you wanna tell me?
Her: no, nothing, what's wrong?
Me: i heard some pretty bad stuff, you better be honest with me now. if you wanna tell me anything, here is your chance, anything you say after this conversation, i won't believe.
Her: no, i didnt do anything wrong, i never even touched anyone, never cheated, i was always honest with you.
Me: Ok, 1, your facebook is full of your exBFs loveley photos with hearts and shit. 2. you invited him for dinner last week, you never told me about this, i wasnt invited. 3. you keep much of your stuff at his place. 4. on sunday you disappeared for a whole day (i know she talked with him the day before and he wanted to have a quickie with her but she doesn't know that i know this), explain it.
Her: 1. i dont care about facebook. 2. he didnt come, only 2 frieds came (his exBFs best frieds a guy and a girl), but he didnt (highly inlikely IMO), 3. it doesnt matter, 4. i didnt cheat, didnt even kiss.
Me: tell me everything.
Her: there is noting i could.
Me: when was the last time you talked to your ex.
Her: (getting ashamed)... recently
Me: when did you meet her the last time?
Her: 2 days ago, but he was just helping out with some stuff.
Than i told her to ger her stuff out of my car. She was smiling, took them out and walked away.
Than I went to a firends party.
Her text 30mins later: I was gonna tell you about this meeting yesterday, but you didn't meet me yesterday so i couldnt. all the other things you said are wrong. you can have my facebook password and check yourself (haha, she must have deleted everything by then). you shouldnt even consider these terrible things, i never even kissed anyone since i met you. you should have at least listened to me.
Her text 60mins later: Im going to your place now and we will talk. i m not going to leave it like this without a reason.
Me: i m not at home. you had your chances to be hones and talk.
Her: I ve been always honest with you, except for this one single meeting. if you dont trust me we can stop all contact.
Her: Im here at your door, should i wait?
than she calls, i dont pick up
Her texting than: Ok, understood. i will never talk to you again because of your stupidness. loved you. nice ending.
yes, she secretly met her ex. but i don't know for sure if they had sex. every single girl does that but not every one of them gets cought.
serously i've done the same, everyone of us has done the same, espcially all the girls have done the same.
What now? how long for a freezout? I really dont know if she cheated, but she secretly met her ex, which was prohibited. she crossed a line, she got dumped. now she acts all huffy.
I'm cool as fuck, no drama on my side, i'm doing ok.
Please give me your honest advice. what do i do now?
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